Who likes anal in your relationship?

Both if us LOVE it.

Best thing I ever did was decide to try 'no vag / anal only' for a month. It's been 6 months of anal sex now and I have a VERY happy butt.

I have a ananl story to share

It’s quite natural to be curious about anal sex, especially if you have never tried it earlier. Is it a safe and hygienic sex position? Is it painful or pleasurable? Let’s bust anal sex myths here so that you and your partner can induce steamy orgasms from every angle (pun intended!) without any misconceptions.

Myth#1: It is painful.
If this is true, then why anal sex is considered one of the most popular sex positions? Couples around the world have been known to spice up things in between the sheets through this position. Anal sex can be painful only if it’s not done the right way. The anus needs to be relaxed and lubricated enough for the entry of penis or anal sex toys link. Try lubricants to loosen up the tight muscles and ease the discomfort. The rule is the more lube, the better.

Even foreplay can unwind tension knots and get you ready for backdoor entry. Start with fingers or tongues first. Roll the toy around the anal opening and cheeks to tease your partner. You can even use additional simulation toys like pasties or tongue vibrators to build the momentum. Most importantly, remember that you can enjoy anal sex the best when you take it slow.



Myth#2: It is unsafe.
Most people think that butt sex can weaken or permanently damage the anal muscles and also put both partners at risk for the sexually transmitted disease. Do you stop enjoying vaginal sex which is equally prone to these two dangers? Nah, you still go ahead and do it. So, it all comes down to engaging in responsible and well-informed sex. Anal sex is very safe as long as you take the necessary precautions.

You should use condoms for protection from infections and lubes for preventing tears in anal muscles. If you are using fingers or anal sex toys, make sure they are thoroughly cleaned and disinfected before every encounter. It is also imperative that you avoid indulging in oral or vaginal sex right after the anal play. Wash yourself immediately and then continue from where you left. Also, ask your partner to wash hands and put on a new condom before inserting it in the mouth or vagina.

Also read: SEX TOYS MYTH BUSTER – TOP 5 MYTHS



Myth#3: It is messy and unhygienic.
Some couples find anal sex repulsive because the experience can turn poop-y. There is no doubt that the appearance of a messy visitor during the throes of passion can freak out anyone. While the chances of this happening are extremely slim or rather nil, it is always advisable to know the facts and be prepared. Do note that faeces are not stored in the anus, but in the upper bowel where no penis, vibrator or dildo can reach (hopefully!). Still, it is better to be safe than sorry. So, go for a bowel movement, wash the anal canal and have a shower before indulging in anal sex. You can also ask your partner to wear latex or vinyl gloves while playing with your rear end.

It is also advisable to follow a healthy and balanced diet to ensure that your anal zone remains in the pink of health. A good diet will keep the poops healthy too and prevent the area from turning sore.



Myth#4: You will lose your partner’s respect.
This is such an outdated and hypocritical point! Mutual trust and communication play a vital role in anal sex. It is all about being comfortable with this position as well as each other’s body. If there is apprehension or it hurts, then you should not force your partner into doing it. Respect relationship boundaries.

What matters is that you both enjoy the experience. If your partner thinks you are a pervert, you may want to have a good talk about your relationship. However, if you are willing to be a student and just experiment to see if you like it or not, you could ask your partner to teach you a few tricks. You can take it forward or abandon it, based on what you feel.



Myth#5: It is taboo and unnatural.
While anal sex has got a bad reputation, there is nothing taboo or unnatural about it. Many couples love to experiment with this position to infuse excitement into their sex life. Butt sex has been around since ages and is as primitive as it can get. It is a natural part of human sexuality.

Anal sex is perfectly normal sexual activity. If you and your partner are comfortable with this position, give it a shot. Or else, there are always other ways to chase orgasms.

Maybe your husband needs to improve his technique?

Recently, after repeated gushing from a round of anal fingering and sex my wife opined; "Did you ever think you would turn me so completely?" She went on to say that she now loves anal sex almost more than vaginal.

IMO the secret is preparation - never penetrate until your partner is truly ready (I say partner because she pegs me as well).

Good luck...

My husband does not like anal, we've tried a few times years ago. I'm the one that likes it.

I enjoy anal play but I don't do it as often as vaginal. My husband has never tried it before but I don't think he is totally against trying it one day. I think he is just satisfied with what we are doing currently so it has never been something seriously discussed.

Hi, we both love it but I’m saying that on different levels. MrsS wants to be ass fucked and feeling the climax explode inside her ass but it’s a slow process stretching her ass and using loads of lube in the process. Once her hole is relaxed as she is being ass fucked eventually she wants it deeper, harder and faster.
MrD on the other hand always loves any ass attention, all ass play is welcome so the toys just keep getting bigger and photos more interesting lol

You need to go back to basics, back to the beginning. It’s hard for someone to want to relive the bad experience if their ass suffered pain and discomfort. I have been there a couple of times taking it way back for them.
The key is openly communicating about say in this case anal sex. You need to assure her and make her feel that she is the most important part of you and being sexually intimate together.
Don’t force her, it will happen. When it looks like it could don’t rush. It will comfort you both that as she was having a shower you could help her out with the soap. Believe that the mighty ass hole has many sensitive nerves packed in tight there and if done right the reward is endless, So, with your hand and soap as one work her cheeks as your gently headed to her sweet spot then gently allow the soap be soft and slippery and work her button, hold her and kiss her as you’re washing her sweet ass hole.
Now once youse are in bed all aroused and horny as hell remember that she is number one so make your way to her pussy lips with your mouth and gently with passion kiss and lick her pussy working slowly from outside in. I’m sure you can fill in the gaps but eventually your tongue slides down to her freshly soaped up ass hole that you gently kiss and softly lick. Just work her ass hole with your tongue gently pushing your tongue deeper in her ass hole.
I haven’t met a woman that hasn’t enjoyed me doing this to her yet.
Anyway stopping ahead first it’s lots of good lube gently starting to finger her ass with one finger, then two and so on.
It could take hours lol but she is number one.
End result is your lubed up cock gently stroking in and out of her tight ass but you should if you relaxed her and made her feel great you will feel her ass muscles relax around your cock, then more lube, always more lube pick up the stroke pace and before you know it your cock will explode deep in her ass hole and trust me this load of cum she will feel lol,
We don’t use conforms by the way.
To level the playing field with us from the beginning I assured her that it would be only fair to go out shopping for a strap on harness and a few rubber cocks of her own she could fuck my ass hole with as a thank you to her for having me fuck her ass hole. It was a process but rewarding. These days we both love fucking the other’s ass hole as we do eating it as well. We both enjoy receiving a fucking from each other and to top it off my wife discovered that having me suck my own cum out of her ass hole and swallow it while she watches me swallow that it makes her pussy flow heavily with her thick, sticky and sweet pussy juice that I always crave so much.
Hope this helps and hope you both discover how good the feeling is that overcomes you from the person you love the most fucks you where you expected it the least and never want it to end!

Its all depend on choice.... some of them like to anal sex and some don't like this

Ive had to go slowly as he's pretty big (i seriously deserve a medal lol) but we both enjoy it

My wife and I are very experimental. We gave anal sex a go several years ago and she and I both love it. Maybe I'll get lucky and she will want to peg me someday! I'd love to try out being on the receiving end.

My wife can as well. Tremendously as well.

You should get her an anal dilator set, or anal training set. Before you know it, she'll be begging you to take her from the back.