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The first time I ever tried it he just went for it without asking (not my current partner). I was not happy. With my current partner, I did and he was very happy since he'd never had it before.
That goes the same for me! My ex just decided to "surprise me" and try it out of nowhere! I was NOT ready for that! Lol. My husband had never been able to try it before though, so I was very happy to be able to suggest it