Your first anal experience...

Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
Of all of us that have experienced any form of anal play, be it with partner sex or solo play...what was it that brought about your first anal experience? Was it solo or with a partner? Did you like it or hate it? Was it OK or did it open a whole new world?
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11/21/2019
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Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
My first experience was prompted after reading an article on anal sex in Penthouse while in college. I had been curious to begin with, so on a quiet solo night, I let my fingers do the walking and have been hooked ever since. Needless to say, things have greatly upgraded and improved since then
11/21/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
I was curious about anal stimulation so while masturbating I started to slip a finger in or two. It felt really good and I have expanded the stimulation from there. I still go back to using a finger or two on myself. They feel great and can hit the hot spots.
11/21/2019
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
So I had been married for a long time and never considered anal. My wife would have never done anything like that and I was never interested in trying it before. But since I have been reading these post and looking at stuff here and online I have been thinking about it. I tried it about 2 weeks ago when I was alone with a little plug I bought myself. At first I wasnt sure but when I did it together with the masturbation part it did cause everything to happen faster. So I guess I can say it was better and felt good. Im going to stick with this little plug for a while though.
11/30/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
It was only after my husband and I were married that he said anything about trying anal sex. But just me. He had no interest in being penetrated. I'm pretty open to new things (at least trying them out once) but it took a while for me to get the courage. I didn't really like it the first time but decided to try once more--the second time was the charm for me. He still has no interest in anal play on himself.
11/30/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
The anal play was introduced to me by my BF. We had never talked and discussed anal sex, he'd never asked my thoughts or permission, but once during foreplay he surprised me with his finger into my backdoor And it was so natural and pleasurable, that I never complained

But my 1st experience with a butt plug was solo. I learned tons of information about anal toys and anal play, took the tiniest and the simplest plug I was able to find at that time and went ahead. Overall, it was a great session for the 1st time.

And I guess I was lucky to have a positive experience at the beginning, which inspired me to explore more and more facets of anal play!
12/02/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Leil@
The anal play was introduced to me by my BF. We had never talked and discussed anal sex, he'd never asked my thoughts or permission, but once during foreplay he surprised me with his finger into my backdoor And it was so natural and pleasurable, ... more
Congratulations

Working up to an anal orgasm should be fun - fair warning - it will be intense and you will wonder why you waited
12/03/2019
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
I seem to like the feel of being full with a butt plug rather than in and out penetration. It’s an incredible feeling.
12/07/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Mr.Pitt
I seem to like the feel of being full with a butt plug rather than in and out penetration. It’s an incredible feeling.
My wife started out that way - the butt plug makes for a tight PIV experience.

But after a while, she started to ask for in-out motions - obviously with a lot of lube. We progressed from there to anal intercourse.

She commented the other day that she has a much easier time achieving orgasms with anal penetration. In fact her favorite for a quickie is me fingering her and her clit wand.
12/07/2019
Contributor: Otelia Otelia
I fingered myself and used a hairbrush handle while masturbating. My first experience with a partner hurt like-hell...had to stop, but had to try again...I needed to be trained....love it now.
12/12/2019
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
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Originally posted by Otelia
I fingered myself and used a hairbrush handle while masturbating. My first experience with a partner hurt like-hell...had to stop, but had to try again...I needed to be trained....love it now.
Nice profile pic.
12/14/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by SoloRebel
Of all of us that have experienced any form of anal play, be it with partner sex or solo play...what was it that brought about your first anal experience? Was it solo or with a partner? Did you like it or hate it? Was it OK or did it open a whole new ... more
Mine was with an ex. I guess we never even really talked about it either. He just went to try it and I let him. He's the only guy i did anal with more regularly.

My husband doesn't really care to do anal he prefers vaginal sex so we only have maybe once or twice. And he isn't interested in trying anything out either.
03/10/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I'm an anal sex virgin. While I was dating the woman who'd later become my fiancee, she asked me if I wanted to have anal sex with her later that evening. We were at dinner, and she was half-looped. She thought I was teasing her or being less than honest when I told her that I had never had anal sex. She told me she had had a lot of anal sex, and she was an anal sex expert. Some of what she told me was intriguing. She has had massive, body trembling orgasms masturbating while guys were banging her ass. I had never considered a woman's ass as sexually arousing for her. So I researched it. I learned that anal pressure during orgasm increases intensity of female orgasm. I've bought two butt plugs for her: small and medium. She has Richter scale orgasms with a medium butt plug inside of her ass, a vibrator working her pussy's ridges, and her swollen clit sucked into my mouth and my tongue massaging it to off the charts orgasm.

My fiancee told me that when she was in college, she learned how to have anal sex that was pleasurable for her. This is just a guess because I haven't asked her and it would mean nothing to me: she allowed guys to fuck her ass as a birth control method. However, she has insisted that it's pleasurable for her if a guy has anal sex knowledge. That's what she was trying to teach me: how to have anal sex. I've always been good with pussy and mouth. Two things she's told me as shied me away from anal sex: it's messy due to amount of silicon lubricant necessary to prep her ass to accept a guy's cock, and anal sex often caused her to feel that she had to poop and sometimes she actually had to run to a bathroom after a dude came inside of her ass. The way I see it, poop and sex do not mesh. If fact, it's a total turn off for me.

For a couple years, she was after my anal sex virginity. She used to tell me that guys used to love having anal sex with her, and her ass was tighter than her tight pussy. I knew that she was really trying to entice me to surrender my anal sex virginity to her. After a dude dilated her ass and she smothered his cock with silicon lubricant and the amount of lubricant he had to have used to dilate her ass, I could not see how it could feel tighter than her pussy. I have to put a folded towel under her ass, apply a thick coat of silicon lubricant to a butt plug, and put a lot f it on a finger and slide it inside of her ass just to be able to slide a medium butt plug inside of her ass. Even that's extremely messy, and I'll always wash my hands before I get to working on her clit.

Based upon what my fiancee has told me, what I've read, and my experiences with butt plugs inside of my fiancee's ass, I do believe that anal pressure does increase intensity of female orgasm. My advice is to buy a few butt plugs. She'll be glad you did.
03/18/2020
Contributor: trident trident
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Originally posted by Bailed
I'm an anal sex virgin. While I was dating the woman who'd later become my fiancee, she asked me if I wanted to have anal sex with her later that evening. We were at dinner, and she was half-looped. She thought I was teasing her or being less ... more
wow thats very steamy
im glad ur wife has such amazing oragsms

if u use silicone products (like the plugs) make sure to use water-based lube, otherwise ur toy will deteriorate
03/19/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
Hi trident,

For years, my fiancee used to try to take my anal sex virginity. I'm sure her former boyfriends loved having anal sex with her. But I knew her ploy. She assuredly embellished her anal sex experiences in effort to entice me to surrendering my anal sex virginity to her. She told me to keep silicon lubricant in my bedroom. I do, but for my fingers and her butt plugs.

My fiancee has always been cautious. She is not germophobic or paranoid. She won't take avoidable risks. She told me that after her former boyfriends had anal sex with her, she'd insist that they took showers. She showered with them. She scrubbed their cocks. She didn't trust them to thoroughly scrub their cocks. She would not have vaginal sex after anal sex unless she scrubbed their cocks. She knew that fecal matter inside of her pussy could have caused a serious and possible fatal infection (sepsis).

After my fiancee explained anal sex to me in minute detail, it sounded like the effort wasn't worth the reward. She has a tight pussy and she really does give the best blow jobs I've ever had.
03/20/2020
Contributor: nikywolfe nikywolfe
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Originally posted by SoloRebel
Of all of us that have experienced any form of anal play, be it with partner sex or solo play...what was it that brought about your first anal experience? Was it solo or with a partner? Did you like it or hate it? Was it OK or did it open a whole new ... more
Many years ago a boyfriend tried to shove his way inside me and it hurt like hell and I was against it ever since. Within the last few years I've discovered hormone balance and my sex drive has skyrocketed. My partner and I enjoy toys and I've been buying and trying different ones. I've really enjoyed butt plugs and the pleasure of feeling full, still against having him inside me. I bought a new plug to try and during our session the plug kept pushing out and next thing I knew I was like 'what the heck is going on' and he was slowly entering me taking the place of the plug and as you said, it opened a whole new world to me. I was having such immense pleasure that when it was over I was giving tips and asking him when we try that again!!!
03/25/2020
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by nikywolfe
Many years ago a boyfriend tried to shove his way inside me and it hurt like hell and I was against it ever since. Within the last few years I've discovered hormone balance and my sex drive has skyrocketed. My partner and I enjoy toys and ... more
Very similar to what happened with my wife

Since that 1st successful anal encounter our routine includes some type of anal stimulation every time we get together - and anal sex at least 1/2 of the time.

One interesting new thing we've tried I use the small ball of the Pure Wand to stimulate her g-spot through the separating tissue - it's like I've found a button - her gushing is epic
03/27/2020
Contributor: TYE TYE
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Originally posted by SoloRebel
Of all of us that have experienced any form of anal play, be it with partner sex or solo play...what was it that brought about your first anal experience? Was it solo or with a partner? Did you like it or hate it? Was it OK or did it open a whole new ... more
I was curious and wanted to try it so I watched some porn to try and relax me and used alot of lube my first time. Lol Now i love it and ready to try a double anal toy. Always curious about something more so I prefer bigger toys anal for deeper penetration.
04/06/2021