I've recently noticed something, and I don't know if it's just something about my body or if it's something that affects other women as well. What I've noticed is that if I use a strong clitoral vibrator that is more on the buzzy side (The Fairy Miniature is the one I have noticed this most on) then my clitoris afterward becomes so sensitive that it almost hurts. It's like it feels pokey, if that makes sense. At first I thought it was all strong vibrations, and I was actually getting worried. This sensitivity will last up to a week and it got so bad at one point that if my husband would directly touch my clitoris I would flinch. I seriously thought I was broken.
After a week of no toy use, it had gone away. We thought it was a fluke and after a while of taking it easy and only using gentler toys we ended up using the Fairy Miniature again to the point that I had several orgasms and whaddaya know..extreme sensitivity after that for almost a week.
It also somehow also desensitized me at the same time I guess since it prevents me from having an orgasm from my husband giving me oral sex. This was a huge issue because I love receiving and he loves giving it, but it would just feel "ok" as compared to the amazing that it normally is. It would be like ok but not great and then if he put direct pressure on my clitoris I'd feel "pokey" and he had to stop. It got to the point that the only way I could get off was with the super strong vibrations..which were the very thing that was causing the issue in the first place.
Since then I've used the Fairy Rechargeable and the Mystic Wand rechargeable, which both offer strong but lower pitched vibrations and it's been better. Heck, yesterday I used the Mystic Wand earlier in the day and then at night we had sex and I was worried that I'd be too sensitive to get off with him giving me oral..I was absolutely wrong and it actually caused me to orgasm easier.
So, it seems to be that I can use strong deep vibrations and it'll be fine...but if I use strong higher pitched vibrations my sensitivity lasts close to a week.. is this normal to happen? I had never experienced it before, though I also until recently never tried something nearly as strong. I had had times where if I used a toy earlier that day I'd be sensitive for a few hours, but nothing that went on this long..I mean we're seriously talking a week here..that seems a bit crazy to me.
I apologize for the novel of a post!
After a week of no toy use, it had gone away. We thought it was a fluke and after a while of taking it easy and only using gentler toys we ended up using the Fairy Miniature again to the point that I had several orgasms and whaddaya know..extreme sensitivity after that for almost a week.
It also somehow also desensitized me at the same time I guess since it prevents me from having an orgasm from my husband giving me oral sex. This was a huge issue because I love receiving and he loves giving it, but it would just feel "ok" as compared to the amazing that it normally is. It would be like ok but not great and then if he put direct pressure on my clitoris I'd feel "pokey" and he had to stop. It got to the point that the only way I could get off was with the super strong vibrations..which were the very thing that was causing the issue in the first place.
Since then I've used the Fairy Rechargeable and the Mystic Wand rechargeable, which both offer strong but lower pitched vibrations and it's been better. Heck, yesterday I used the Mystic Wand earlier in the day and then at night we had sex and I was worried that I'd be too sensitive to get off with him giving me oral..I was absolutely wrong and it actually caused me to orgasm easier.
So, it seems to be that I can use strong deep vibrations and it'll be fine...but if I use strong higher pitched vibrations my sensitivity lasts close to a week.. is this normal to happen? I had never experienced it before, though I also until recently never tried something nearly as strong. I had had times where if I used a toy earlier that day I'd be sensitive for a few hours, but nothing that went on this long..I mean we're seriously talking a week here..that seems a bit crazy to me.
I apologize for the novel of a post!
