I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
do you come or cum?
11/02/2011
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Yes, that's how I like to put it also. I come = I climax, and he cums = he ejaculates.
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/02/2011
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I stick with cum for me as well as for him. In my mind it keeps the sexual version clear of the daily use of the word. If I didn't I could see myself using cum in place of come in a normal email when describing the action of someone.. oops. Plus as wet as I get with the occasional.squirt cum seems to fit. I also like it because it goes with yum as in yum or yummy cum or cum on my buns though admittedly the normal cries of passion are "Fuck me oh yes fuck me! Cum deep in my pussy - I want your cum!"
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/02/2011
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I like that version. Although in general, I prefer the word come. Cum is strangely a squiggy word for me. Like talking about bodily functions with curse words. It's not that I don't say it, I just don't prefer it.
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/02/2011
For me cum is the product from coming. As in "I had her cum all over my face". But the act is coming. as in "he came", "I'm coming" and so on...
11/02/2011
I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she came all over the bed, he/she came over the the house.
11/02/2011
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Ditto. Didn't feel like re typing.
Originally posted by
Jul!a
I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she
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I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she came all over the bed, he/she came over the the house.
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To me it's two separate words although they sound the same.
11/02/2011
I use cum for climaxing. Like Sam (aka Jul!a), I think it is easier to differentiate when you spell them differently.
11/02/2011
Grammatically, and almost universally, I use "cum" and "cumming" to indicate orgasm. They sound different to "come" and "coming," however. "Came" is past tense for both.
That said, my significant other definitely "comes" instead of "cums," when I just "cum." There's some sort of difference between what he does, and what I do. Hard to explain.
That said, my significant other definitely "comes" instead of "cums," when I just "cum." There's some sort of difference between what he does, and what I do. Hard to explain.
11/02/2011
Master and I both use 'come' I think 'cum' is more.... male-y. *laughs* Hard to explain really.
11/02/2011
I use come for both.
11/02/2011
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Same here. I must have read too much tonight, I thought you wrote they came all over your house. Ok, time to do something else for awhile!LOL!
Originally posted by
Jul!a
I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she
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I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she came all over the bed, he/she came over the the house.
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11/02/2011
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Ditto!
Originally posted by
Toys in Love
For me cum is the product from coming. As in "I had her cum all over my face". But the act is coming. as in "he came", "I'm coming" and so on...
11/02/2011
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I'm the same.
Originally posted by
Jul!a
I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she
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I prefer to use cum and cumming for orgasms to keep the two words separate in my head, because to me you can cum all over somebody, but you come over to somebody's house. The only time they're the same for me is if it's past tense; he/she came all over the bed, he/she came over the the house.
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11/03/2011
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Haha, the typo I just noticed in my post probably didn't help any either.
Originally posted by
js250
Same here. I must have read too much tonight, I thought you wrote they came all over your house. Ok, time to do something else for awhile!LOL!
11/03/2011
I am female but I still consider myself to be cumming. Just another word for orgasm OR ejaculation to me, or even squirting.
11/03/2011
Cum = ejaculate
Coming = Orgasm for either party
I use coming or come or came, because an orgasm is arriving at the point of climax. Cum is the result of coming.
Coming = Orgasm for either party
I use coming or come or came, because an orgasm is arriving at the point of climax. Cum is the result of coming.
11/03/2011
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Same here. The only curse word that doesn't make me cringe when used sexually/bodily-functi onally is "fuck." And "come" does make sense to me, as in "Come with me to this fabulous orgasm-y place." (Only in a less bodice-ripper way).
Originally posted by
Jaimes
I like that version. Although in general, I prefer the word come. Cum is strangely a squiggy word for me. Like talking about bodily functions with curse words. It's not that I don't say it, I just don't prefer it.
And I'm now going to be saying "squiggy" all day long. Yay! I love new words.
11/03/2011
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I like to "come", and I like it when my partner "comes", but I think he often writes it as cum and it doesn't bother me. When used as a noun I prefer cum for clarity
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/29/2011
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I don't know if it's the writer in me or what, but I NEVER write "cum." Lol. I guess I'm a "come" prude! Ha Ha. It has to be "come" for me.
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/29/2011
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I always felt she cums he cums
Originally posted by
jenn g
I alway think, and write it, in this way:
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
I come
He cums
Anyone else feel this way?
11/30/2011
I had never really thought about it that way, but it makes sense.
11/30/2011
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I agree.
Originally posted by
Toys in Love
For me cum is the product from coming. As in "I had her cum all over my face". But the act is coming. as in "he came", "I'm coming" and so on...
12/01/2011
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yep, how i see it as well
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
I agree.
12/01/2011
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