Emotionally Awkward & Vulnerable After An Orgasm?

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SexyLilPixi

So, somebody must know that feeling I'm talking about - Emotional sensitivity, awkwardness in those few seconds directly after a mind blowing orgasm.

Doesn't have to be about anything in particular, nothing has to be wrong. It's just there. Maybe it's the rush of endorphins being released.

I average around 4 orgasms a day on a GOOD day, and it usually happens to me at least once or twice out of that. Only for those intense few seconds afterwards. Then it becomes a pleasant, light-headed orgasm high.

Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):

I'm a woman and I have experienced this

Elaira , DeliciousSurprise , kjkitty , Kkay , Ms. Spice , MaryExy , JessCee , padmeamidala , tickle me pink , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Ava5 , bayosgirl , Ghost , K101 , anonymouse58 , Nissa Nissa , wetone123 , Angelica , LQ , Adriana Ravenlust , Tess , STM , SexyStuff , Sohotdinosaur , MissCandyland , eeep , HannahPanda , Cherry21 , deltalima , LunaLuthor , vanilla&chocolate , SMichelle , Airen Wolf , XxFallenAngelxX , Leather & Lace

35 (45%)

I'm a woman and I have not experienced this

Coralbell , Alan & Michele , sarki , indiglo , Waterfall , SiNn , Ryuson , Shellz31 , P'Gell , Redboxbaby , angelkisses , Rossie , Anjulie , TheSlyFox , Breas , v23 , potstickers , Choolz , AndroAngel , Kaltir , DesertIsland , mudpie , GonetoLovehoney , FemmeFlo , mastersonv , Supervixen , Sima-pusya , mpfm

28 (36%)

I'm a man and I have experienced this

ToyBoy , Mxd , Ninja Wolf

3 (4%)

I'm a man and I have not experienced this

newfoundlust , Gunsmoke , Lummox , Lucky21 , married with children , Istanbull , dhig , PassionateLover2 , Stagger13 , Incendiaire , Trysexual , joelb42

12 (15%)

Total votes: 78

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08/02/2011

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SexyLilPixi

Okay, maybe around six is a GOOD day. Four is just a lower-case good day. LOL
These are the days I get to play a lot.

08/02/2011

Elaira

They call this "post-coital blues". I've had it happen to me where I get super depressed afterward for some reason. I thought I was losing my mind or that my brain was broken.

08/02/2011

Alan & Michele

I usually feel either high or sassy after an orgasm... or like I want to do it again

08/02/2011

sarki

Can't say I have ever experienced that feeling

08/02/2011

indiglo

I've never experienced the post-coital blues either. Hope I never do, but at least knowing you're not going crazy is nice if it ever does happen!

08/02/2011

SiNn

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Originally posted by SexyLilPixi

i havent experianced this at all

08/02/2011

ToyBoy

I have felt that before, but it isn't a regular thing, and it never occurs when i'm with a partner.

08/02/2011

kjkitty

When I have closer to what I feel is a g-spot orgasm, I ALWAYS start crying afterwards. I'm not sad, it's just a reaction or something. It freaks my boyfriend out because he thinks he hurt me (emotionally or physically) and I always feel awful about that. I always try to tell him through my tears, "I'm fine. Really. I'm just crying."

08/02/2011

SexyLilPixi

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Originally posted by kjkitty

I've heard of this before too.

It's so weird, it's been happening to me since forever, way back. I really don't understand it. Even if everything is all fine & dandy, and it only lasts for under a minute.

08/03/2011

Kkay

The vulnerability I can relate to.

08/03/2011

Gunsmoke

Way too old for that - we're very comfortable in our relationship. More like to have a good laugh than cry - but mostly it's 'oh my - thank you, that was awesome'.

Getting old has it's advantages!

08/03/2011

Ms. Spice

i've had that but only bc it was a one night stand or something. if i'm close to the person, i won't feel awkward or anything. i just relish the moment

08/03/2011

Lucky21

I haven't had one, but I have had partners who have, and it seems kind of common.

08/03/2011

Shellz31

I always feel fantastic after playing.

08/03/2011

Redboxbaby

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Originally posted by Gunsmoke

Way too old for that - we're very comfortable in our relationship. More like to have a good laugh than cry - but mostly it's 'oh my - thank you, that was awesome'.

Getting old has it's advantages!

Yep!

"Oh my God, that was incredible! Thank you!" Is heard in our bedroom a few times a week.

08/03/2011

tickle me pink

I've experienced the emotional sensitivity before, but not exactly like you're talking about. After orgasm my emotions are so intense that any emotion I experience will be much stronger. Usually that just means I'm really happy, but if I think of something even slightly sad I can start crying. Luckily that's only happened once, though.

08/03/2011

SexyLilPixi

Thing is, it has nothing to do with sadness or emotions for me. It's like my body is expelling every emotion it can go through for under a minute, and then it's that awesome after-orgasm feeling.

08/04/2011

Anjulie

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Originally posted by sarki

Can't say I have ever experienced that feeling

Never happens to me either

08/04/2011

Rossie

I do not have that kind of problem. I'm usually busy catching my breath and savoring the last bit of sensation from my orgasms.

08/04/2011

TheSlyFox

I don't have this problem, usually i just want more :3

08/05/2011

K101

I've had this happen, but not often. Very few times and it's not an intense feeling for me, I mean I don't feel an intense urge to cry or anything, but I get what you're saying. Mostly I think my moments with this seemed to have been at the very beginning of the relationship and I remember once with an ex I'd left my parent's house late at night and met him across the road and I did get that very intense feeling and busted into crying! EMBARRASSING! There was no warning. I don't know what happened and I was light headed like you said. I really was confused then.... it wasn't exactly good sex. Lol. But I know what you mean. It could wear off after you've been with the person longer if that's your case? I wouldn't say it's a bad thing at all though. While it may make you a little red cheeked, I would say you're normal. It just means you really get into it.

08/05/2011

Nissa Nissa

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Originally posted by SexyLilPixi

I'm ocd so sometimes I freak out about orgasming too hard or something because.. hypochondriac.. omg what if i die kind of thing lol.. then I'm just like jelly.

08/08/2011

v23

I've heard of other people doing this but I've never experienced it myself.

08/08/2011

wetone123

When I have a mind blowing orgasm, sometimes I cry. Not from sadness, but from the release of tension in my body. I think this freaks some guys out. Others smile and seem pleased with their work tho'. I feel very open to being hurt if a man can bring me those mind blowing experiences for some reason that I do not quite understand. Trust is a very fragile thing.

08/08/2011

Angelica

I had an ex-friends-with-benefi ts who would try to take advantage of this by trying to ask me to be in a relationship of some sort with him. I always felt it was a very manipulative and underhanded thing to do. I keep my guard up unless I am with a partner I can feel free to experience that post orgasmic emotional ride..

11/06/2011

Choolz

I have never experienced that and I'm so glad. How embarrassing and awkward- in my opinion-. If a guy I was having sex with started getting all emotional and weird I would get the fuck out of there as fast as possible. I don't like being around overly emotional people at all, so especially during/after sex, for me, would be a major turn off

11/07/2011

AndroAngel

I have a vagina and I have not experienced this. Usually the sensation I get is "I must cuddle you now because I'm so happy and content..." Although I have had moments I was so grateful I almost cried when I was dominant and my lover did something that showed exactly how much he trusted me in a BDSM scene.

11/07/2011

aimtoplease

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Originally posted by SexyLilPixi

For me, if its a really good one, I'll burst out laughing my ass off!! the wife lovess it

12/11/2011

GonetoLovehoney

I'm usually too out of it to care about what's going on around me. I only get one orgasm per session(self-brought of course) but it's enough to put me out of mental (and sometimes physical) commission for about 10-30 minutes.

The only thing I'm capable of thinking is: cuddle time now,clean up later.

12/11/2011

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