Practice makes perfect.
How did you learn to give your significant other the best possible orgasms?
12/01/2011
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I've experimented with them and read many things about how the female body works, but the best tool is just talking to your partner to see how their body responds to certain touches. Everyone has a different sensitive and personal likes and dislikes so you really need to talk to your partner to see what makes them feel oh so good.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
For those who like to do all they can for their partners, what has been your BEST learning tool?
04/05/2012
Experimenting and Hentai. It works.
04/10/2012
Nothing like experience! Even messing something up can be fun!!
04/10/2012
Practice, Practice, Practice, makes purrrfect
05/14/2012
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looking at books/online is a good way to get ideas but just get in there and experiment.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
For those who like to do all they can for their partners, what has been your BEST learning tool?
05/14/2012
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Did homework online, did work in the bedroom.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
For those who like to do all they can for their partners, what has been your BEST learning tool?
05/14/2012
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The internet and forums like Eden have given me a lot of great tips.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
For those who like to do all they can for their partners, what has been your BEST learning tool?
05/14/2012
Experimenting. Some "Christian Bedroom" blogs, some sex+ vlogs on youtube. Erotica, Cosmo, asking other people questions. But i've found the best way to please him is talk to him. "Do you like that?" "Can I try this?" Etc. Communication is the BEST way to have an awesome sex life.
05/14/2012
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Experimenting, and try different things.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
For those who like to do all they can for their partners, what has been your BEST learning tool?
05/14/2012
Experimenting, communication, trust, etc.
You never know when you're going to learn something new.
You never know when you're going to learn something new.
05/14/2012
My wife and I were both very shy and repressed at first, so there wasn't much discussion then. I simply paid attention to how she responded to certain things, some through experimentation, some by accident. I figure it was the same for her, although she's always seems to know just what to do. As our relationship has grown and we've come out of our shells, so to speak, we've learned to discuss what we like and don't. Adding mutual masturbation (gasp! shocker!) to our exploits helped a lot, despite the fact we'd been together quite a while by then. And somehow we ended up here, together, some 26 years later, closer than ever before, still learning, and very much looking forward to the next discovery about the other... and self.
05/14/2012
Experimenting, reading literature together (getting turned on is a plus!) and generally just ASKING.
05/29/2012
Experimentation and feedback Talking about what works and doesn't is important for us.
05/29/2012
Lot of practice, bit of reading books
05/30/2012
We both pretty much have it down after both experimenting and just verbalizing what we like.
06/01/2012
I say a lot of experimenting and porn as well as dirty talking with him during sex which lets him play out his fantasies it makes for really hot sex too!
06/02/2012
talking and experimenting
07/12/2012
experimenting and knowing/finding out what they like
07/24/2012
Just experimenting. Communication is really important. Its a lot easier to be open and be able to talk about what we want and then take that to the sheets!
07/24/2012
Experimenting / doing things I enjoy doing.
07/28/2012
Mostly talking to each other about what works and doesn't
07/28/2012
Combining his suggestions with experimentation. I also tried tricks I read in books or magazines. He was most helpful though because he's been giving himself orgasms for years!
07/28/2012
communication is key in this
07/28/2012
With my last partner it was pretty much just goofing around in the bedroom until we found out what worked.
07/29/2012
You just have to learn about what the other person likes.
07/29/2012
Experimenting and good communication.
07/29/2012
communicating and experimenting
09/12/2012
expermenting
09/12/2012
All of the above. I am a sponge when it comes to learning about sex.
09/13/2012