Introducing toys with my partner

Introducing toys with my partner

Passionate Mandi Passionate Mandi
I've always used my toys by myself, but since I moved in with my boyfriend they haven't been out of the box. I'd really like to introduce them into our foreplay and sex, but I've always been pretty private about sex in general (I can be relatively anonymous on here, so it doesn't bother me) and don't know how to even bring it up to my boyfriend. I've lived with him for almost 3 months now and haven't even gotten my toys out to play by myself. Our sex life is great, but I'd like to shake it up a bit.

We've briefly discussed toys right after we started dating, but I don't think he even knows I own any...much less that I'd like for us to use them together. I also don't want him to think that he's not pleasing me (oh believe me...he is ) but I think it would make it a little more interesting.

Any suggestions on how to breach the subject?
08/09/2010
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Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've always used my toys by myself, but since I moved in with my boyfriend they haven't been out of the box. I'd really like to introduce them into our foreplay and sex, but I've always been pretty private about sex in general (I can ...
What kind of toys are they? There are many ways to go about this (and have fun doing it)...
08/09/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I introduced my girl to toys with a 'starter' clit vibe - they are kind of the gateway toy. But changing it around how would that work?

One way might be to 'sneak' in a clit vibe and introduce it when he's doing you dogie style - your clit is exposed and if he's holding your hips - it's an open 'target'. If you think he can't take the surprise you might mention 'trying something you read in Cosmo' (or some other women's mags)- they have toy articles pretty regularly these days.

You may find that he'd actually be relieved to get the help!
08/09/2010
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