Definitely not, bigger can be really difficult! I've been with a guy who was so big it was painful, more average with someone who can use it is much preferable.
Is bigger always better?
02/18/2011
only been with husband who is average. satisfied so doesnt matter to me.
03/08/2011
Yes and no.
Honestly, I've had great sex with guys who ranged from 3" to 9" in length, so I'm a big believer in "it's not what you got, it's how you use it".
Having said that, I have a very sensitive cervix (and not in a good way), so when I was with lovers who were a bit longer we would have to find positions that didn't involve any deep penetration. If they so much as brushed past my cervix, I'd be in for a whole evening of pain. It didn't mean that the sex wasn't good, or that I didn't orgasm; it just meant that they needed to be considerate.
What surprised me the most was when I first went from a guy who was very long (9") to a guy who was about 4"... I had a much easier time achieving orgasm with the smaller guy. He could get in balls-deep, and that not only brought his body into contact with my clitoris, but it also gave me an amazing sense of intimacy with him. I'd never come so hard so fast.
The only problem was that both he and the 3" guy had a lot of insecurity about their size. It really didn't seem to matter that I was having a fabulous time and enjoying them very much. They'd been conditioned into believing that they weren't big enough, and they therefore both assumed that I was lying about how much I loved it... It was very sad, and completely ruined both relationships.
Seriously, guys, quit worrying and send those small cocks my way. I think they're great!
Honestly, I've had great sex with guys who ranged from 3" to 9" in length, so I'm a big believer in "it's not what you got, it's how you use it".
Having said that, I have a very sensitive cervix (and not in a good way), so when I was with lovers who were a bit longer we would have to find positions that didn't involve any deep penetration. If they so much as brushed past my cervix, I'd be in for a whole evening of pain. It didn't mean that the sex wasn't good, or that I didn't orgasm; it just meant that they needed to be considerate.
What surprised me the most was when I first went from a guy who was very long (9") to a guy who was about 4"... I had a much easier time achieving orgasm with the smaller guy. He could get in balls-deep, and that not only brought his body into contact with my clitoris, but it also gave me an amazing sense of intimacy with him. I'd never come so hard so fast.
The only problem was that both he and the 3" guy had a lot of insecurity about their size. It really didn't seem to matter that I was having a fabulous time and enjoying them very much. They'd been conditioned into believing that they weren't big enough, and they therefore both assumed that I was lying about how much I loved it... It was very sad, and completely ruined both relationships.
Seriously, guys, quit worrying and send those small cocks my way. I think they're great!
03/08/2011
a small dick beats dildo every time, right? A dildo is just silicone or glass or whatever, a dick is an extension. It pulses, shoots, etc. That being said dildos are fun too, sometimes giant ones.
09/26/2012
bigger isn't always better i have been with guys who have had big cocks an didn't even know how to use it to please me. i have had better sex with average or below average men
09/26/2012
I've only ever had one size!
10/15/2012
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No bigger isn't always better.
Originally posted by
SexyySarah
This is always a question I wondered and I always said no to this. But I think that there are many factors that go into this. My hubby is average size and we use a quite large dildo for me and I absolutely love it, but I still enjoy sex with my
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This is always a question I wondered and I always said no to this. But I think that there are many factors that go into this. My hubby is average size and we use a quite large dildo for me and I absolutely love it, but I still enjoy sex with my hubby as well because he knows exactly how to move it. So, does size matter to you?
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10/16/2012
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Size is a factor but not a major factor.
Originally posted by
SexyySarah
This is always a question I wondered and I always said no to this. But I think that there are many factors that go into this. My hubby is average size and we use a quite large dildo for me and I absolutely love it, but I still enjoy sex with my
...
more
This is always a question I wondered and I always said no to this. But I think that there are many factors that go into this. My hubby is average size and we use a quite large dildo for me and I absolutely love it, but I still enjoy sex with my hubby as well because he knows exactly how to move it. So, does size matter to you?
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11/16/2012
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