I think it's a very interesting topic. I read some ebooks on this and tantric in general and I know and use 2 methods pretty well.
Method one.
Press your perineum at the time you are about to cum. You need to keep doing that for a little bit, but it's not necessary for the full length of the orgasm.
Pro: 100% effective, feeling is the same as normally, relaxed method.
Con: Good timing and proper pressure is required.
Method two.
I discovered this myself. It's about sort of keeping it back. This sounds bad but it isn't. If you have a developed pc muscle you can keep it flexed during orgasm and you won't have much fluids coming out. You don't have to flex too strong at all! I trained my PC a lot when I was younger. I'm able to hold it for a very long time.. Anyway, it's just as good as method one.
Pro: Handsfree, keeps you up better afterwards to do it again.
Con: Not 100% effective, not as relaxed as method one, you can "leak" in the next hours - not much more than if you were just aroused for some time.
By effective I mean whether or not you'll end up completely dry if done properly.
Common Pros:
- No cleanup required! No more hesitation when you ran out of tissues or condoms.
- You can cum in your girlfriends mouth without her needing to swallow or taste or receive anything. Method 1 is probably safer for this but both work.
- You can do this when you have pants on or the situation won't allow you to take the pants down and cleanup would be hard (On a long distance private bus at night with your gf on a dobule seat for example. True story.)
- You have a better chance of continuing without pause in any situation! If you do this with a condom you may continue towards your second orgasm without replacing the condom because it won't contain anything. Just master it before you try it live! Then you don't need to end the session.. maybe your girl wanted more but you came then it's over it's probably bad for her. Even more if you don't cuddle or help her to orgasm after you are done.
- Would make your fleshlight-like toy's cleanup much easier.
Common cons:
- I wouldn't do it often. It's just tiring on the long way. It's supposed to come out sometimes
- Next urination can be a bit funny. By funny I mean it comes off with urine and the texture will be, well, mixed. It won't be painful however just slower.
- Don't use it for birth control!
The question remains
Method one.
Press your perineum at the time you are about to cum. You need to keep doing that for a little bit, but it's not necessary for the full length of the orgasm.
Pro: 100% effective, feeling is the same as normally, relaxed method.
Con: Good timing and proper pressure is required.
Method two.
I discovered this myself. It's about sort of keeping it back. This sounds bad but it isn't. If you have a developed pc muscle you can keep it flexed during orgasm and you won't have much fluids coming out. You don't have to flex too strong at all! I trained my PC a lot when I was younger. I'm able to hold it for a very long time.. Anyway, it's just as good as method one.
Pro: Handsfree, keeps you up better afterwards to do it again.
Con: Not 100% effective, not as relaxed as method one, you can "leak" in the next hours - not much more than if you were just aroused for some time.
By effective I mean whether or not you'll end up completely dry if done properly.
Common Pros:
- No cleanup required! No more hesitation when you ran out of tissues or condoms.
- You can cum in your girlfriends mouth without her needing to swallow or taste or receive anything. Method 1 is probably safer for this but both work.
- You can do this when you have pants on or the situation won't allow you to take the pants down and cleanup would be hard (On a long distance private bus at night with your gf on a dobule seat for example. True story.)
- You have a better chance of continuing without pause in any situation! If you do this with a condom you may continue towards your second orgasm without replacing the condom because it won't contain anything. Just master it before you try it live! Then you don't need to end the session.. maybe your girl wanted more but you came then it's over it's probably bad for her. Even more if you don't cuddle or help her to orgasm after you are done.
- Would make your fleshlight-like toy's cleanup much easier.
Common cons:
- I wouldn't do it often. It's just tiring on the long way. It's supposed to come out sometimes
- Next urination can be a bit funny. By funny I mean it comes off with urine and the texture will be, well, mixed. It won't be painful however just slower.
- Don't use it for birth control!
The question remains
