I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my strongest clit stimulation air pressure toy will be cranked all the way to high and after 30 min of that I will have either gone completely numb, or killed the battery! Which can be INFURIATING! After doing some online reasearch I've learned that to combat this I'll have to say goodbye to all my toys for a few weeks, possiably a whole month, and retrain myself to orgasm naturally, so to speak. I read one article where they compared it to using a massage chair. If you sit in a massage chair for an hour, then have someone rub your shoulders, then obviously the shoulder rub is going to feel much less intense. However, getting a shoulder rub, say, right after waking up, would be amazing! I was relieved to learn that the strong vibrations, even over use of, CAN NOT in fact cause any numbing or damage to the clitoris. I also read that withholding orgasms from myself for a few weeks can help with regaining my ability to orgasm without the vibrations. But now I'm curious to see if this has happened to others, and what you did to regain your orgasming power? Or how long it took for everything to go back to normal? Or did things never go back to normal? Any insight to others experience with this would be much appreciated.
Needing more and more clit stimulation to orgasm
02/18/2021
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This started happening to me when I got my first stronger toy. I started noticing after a couple months that it's take longer to climax, and like you said, it's so frusturating! Ended up solving the issue by taking at least a one week break out of the month to not use a vibe and start 'vibe vacations' whenever I start to feel like I'm taking too long again.
Originally posted by
AnnaBananasAtItAgain
I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my
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I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my strongest clit stimulation air pressure toy will be cranked all the way to high and after 30 min of that I will have either gone completely numb, or killed the battery! Which can be INFURIATING! After doing some online reasearch I've learned that to combat this I'll have to say goodbye to all my toys for a few weeks, possiably a whole month, and retrain myself to orgasm naturally, so to speak. I read one article where they compared it to using a massage chair. If you sit in a massage chair for an hour, then have someone rub your shoulders, then obviously the shoulder rub is going to feel much less intense. However, getting a shoulder rub, say, right after waking up, would be amazing! I was relieved to learn that the strong vibrations, even over use of, CAN NOT in fact cause any numbing or damage to the clitoris. I also read that withholding orgasms from myself for a few weeks can help with regaining my ability to orgasm without the vibrations. But now I'm curious to see if this has happened to others, and what you did to regain your orgasming power? Or how long it took for everything to go back to normal? Or did things never go back to normal? Any insight to others experience with this would be much appreciated.
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02/21/2021
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Regular vibing definitely builds a tolerance that requires more and more stimulation.
Originally posted by
AnnaBananasAtItAgain
I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my
...
more
I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my strongest clit stimulation air pressure toy will be cranked all the way to high and after 30 min of that I will have either gone completely numb, or killed the battery! Which can be INFURIATING! After doing some online reasearch I've learned that to combat this I'll have to say goodbye to all my toys for a few weeks, possiably a whole month, and retrain myself to orgasm naturally, so to speak. I read one article where they compared it to using a massage chair. If you sit in a massage chair for an hour, then have someone rub your shoulders, then obviously the shoulder rub is going to feel much less intense. However, getting a shoulder rub, say, right after waking up, would be amazing! I was relieved to learn that the strong vibrations, even over use of, CAN NOT in fact cause any numbing or damage to the clitoris. I also read that withholding orgasms from myself for a few weeks can help with regaining my ability to orgasm without the vibrations. But now I'm curious to see if this has happened to others, and what you did to regain your orgasming power? Or how long it took for everything to go back to normal? Or did things never go back to normal? Any insight to others experience with this would be much appreciated.
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We keep my wife's clit on a diet for this reason.
Treating strong vibrations as a dessert that we indulge in only occasionally- between 0 and 3 times a month.
We actually have a new Satisfyer air-pulse clit toy that hasn't even been taken out of the box yet. Saving it for a special occasion..
Recently we've begun taking interest in clit pumping as a means to increase sensitivity. Then playing with the pumped clit in slow sensual ways- subtle contact with feathers, tongue, fingers. Which makes her toes curl as much as a vibrator.
However, this is its own journey! We are now looking to buy a better pump set up.
Please keep us updated on your experience. This is a valuable topic.
02/26/2021
You're definitely not alone. A combination of a wand or vibe and a clit sucking tot like the womanizer can help. The Woo Two is nice. It has super strong vibes and if wanted can use it vaginally after getting heated. It's also a double ended vibe
04/18/2021
Me too, for me i think it's when i stress it too much and then i get frustrated and i give up. I try to not touch my clit for a bit (maybe a day or 2)
06/14/2021
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Everything has a price, right? Couple of bone crushers then...
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mmercury
This started happening to me when I got my first stronger toy. I started noticing after a couple months that it's take longer to climax, and like you said, it's so frusturating! Ended up solving the issue by taking at least a one week break
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This started happening to me when I got my first stronger toy. I started noticing after a couple months that it's take longer to climax, and like you said, it's so frusturating! Ended up solving the issue by taking at least a one week break out of the month to not use a vibe and start 'vibe vacations' whenever I start to feel like I'm taking too long again.
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What I've found is that there are MANY other body parts that react very well to stimulation besides my clit. You've got your nipples, labia, ass, legs, and arms. These areas as foreplay can lead to a wonderful experience without involving your clit at all.
Works for me!
07/31/2021
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