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Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
Okay, so my husband thinks I'm crazy, so does everyone else. I never masturbate. Never have, never really feel like it. The thought of it kinda makes me want to, hiding off somewhere cumming all by myself and all. But I never think of it when I'm alone, I never really want to. Its just me, all by myself. I just don't get into the appeal. I've masturbated once, and came. But it was mainly so I could tell my husband (then fiance) that I played with my toys while he was at work, and get us going at it that night!
I never did it when I was a kid either, never thought about. I knew about it, just never did it. I even realize its a normal thing, and that everyone does it. I'm not grossed out by it or anything, I just don't do it, and never have the urge to. If I feel like getting off, I go to my husband! Hes always there, or soon to be there. I'd just rather wait to have a good hard orgasm with him.
So, am I nuts or what? I really wanna masturbate, I think I might be less stressed or something, I don't really know.
11/20/2011
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Contributor: Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by Cherry21
Okay, so my husband thinks I'm crazy, so does everyone else. I never masturbate. Never have, never really feel like it. The thought of it kinda makes me want to, hiding off somewhere cumming all by myself and all. But I never think of it when ... more
I have a lot of friends who actually don't masturbate or use toys. They feel the same way you do, no appeal to it at all. They love talking to me about my toys and my "adventures" as they call them, but they don't personally want anything to do with masturbating.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
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Originally posted by Cherry21
Okay, so my husband thinks I'm crazy, so does everyone else. I never masturbate. Never have, never really feel like it. The thought of it kinda makes me want to, hiding off somewhere cumming all by myself and all. But I never think of it when ... more
In my store, I get a lot of female customers who come in and say they've never done it, but think that they want to start because they want to learn what makes them orgasmic.

Masturbation is nice because it allows you to figure out your own body. You can see what you like, what you don't like, what feels good, and everything else without having the pressure of someone else standing there. There's nothing wrong with it. It's not something that's dirty or gross. It's something totally natural to do and not do.

The main thing I tell my customers is that society sees it as something that's a negative and unhealthy thing to do, and that they should challenge that view and become more sexually liberated. Sex isn't shameful at all, and neither is a little self-love.

What you can do to make it seem a little less strange to you is to tell your husband about it. Send him texts while he's gone saying that you're thinking about him while doing it. Tell him all about it. Play out fantasies in your head of the things the two of you will do. Just make sure you're comfortable with whatever you do and you let those feelings you may already have about it. Personally, I find it really liberating to be able to do it on my own and not need anyone else.
11/20/2011