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Contributor: Pumpkin Lady Pumpkin Lady
Stress can effect your sex life, just like it can effect most everything else. I have been experiencing "sad" orgasms lately, does anyone know what I can do to better them?

I also wondered, does anyone encounter orgasms that decline in intensity, when having multiples? I can't seem to get a better second orgasm than the first, and so on. So if the first one isn't any good, it's disappointment from there on out.
05/30/2009
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Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Pumpkin Lady
Stress can effect your sex life, just like it can effect most everything else. I have been experiencing "sad" orgasms lately, does anyone know what I can do to better them?

I also wondered, does anyone encounter orgasms that decline ... more
Kegels, kegels and more kegels. I've been doing 100 at a time twice a day for a month or so now and there's a very noticeable difference in the strength and duration of my orgasms.
05/30/2009
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Tuesday
Kegels, kegels and more kegels. I've been doing 100 at a time twice a day for a month or so now and there's a very noticeable difference in the strength and duration of my orgasms.
Oh really? I didn't know that. Thank you!!!! I'm starting now and not stopping til I get off this puter. LOL!
05/30/2009
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by Pumpkin Lady
Stress can effect your sex life, just like it can effect most everything else. I have been experiencing "sad" orgasms lately, does anyone know what I can do to better them?

I also wondered, does anyone encounter orgasms that decline ... more
The only thing I can think of is that you might not be fully shutting out the world and all your stress during sex. Because for me, when I do that, the orgasms actually help to destress me.
05/30/2009
Contributor: Pumpkin Lady Pumpkin Lady
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
Kegels, kegels and more kegels. I've been doing 100 at a time twice a day for a month or so now and there's a very noticeable difference in the strength and duration of my orgasms.
Why didn't I think of that? I've been meaning to pick up some exercisers, actually. I think I'm going to go for the Smart Balls.

Okay. One step closer to a better bedtime!
05/30/2009
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
Sometimes when i Orgasm i will start crying afterward and feel so damnd sad its not even funny. i mean it isnt that the sex was bad or the orgasm was bad we could be having a great day a great week or even month with no stress and BAM ill bawl and cant stop. i wont even be able to find a reson for it.
02/24/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by ordinaryak
Sometimes when i Orgasm i will start crying afterward and feel so damnd sad its not even funny. i mean it isnt that the sex was bad or the orgasm was bad we could be having a great day a great week or even month with no stress and BAM ill bawl and ... more
Chemical release and hormone fluctuation is most likely the cause. When you orgasm the endocrine system goes haywire and sometimes you seem to explode with odd sensations. I've had times where I cried, and times where I wanted to kick, scream and punch someone...anyone. Other times I feel pleasantly relaxed and almost drugged. It's a wild ride but unless it becomes disruptive I wouldn't worry about it too much.
02/26/2010
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Chemical release and hormone fluctuation is most likely the cause. When you orgasm the endocrine system goes haywire and sometimes you seem to explode with odd sensations. I've had times where I cried, and times where I wanted to kick, scream and ... more
Hum thats odd that you mention the kick and punch thing becuase sometimes (ok alot of times) when my boyfriend gets on top of me for foreplay or sex i get this urge to beat the crap outta him i dont know why i will try hard to avoid those positions becuase i will litterly start shaking trying to holdback my imediate anger. and it worries me becuase it only happens sometimes. well now i know why im still going to avoid those positions thou
02/28/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
The other day I had 360 pounds of plates on a barbell and was doing squats in the Smith machine cage (because men in Hawaii are too wimpy to spot me) and on the fourth squat I had a dry orgasm that lasted like 2 seconds and extended to the middle of my most central quadracep. It was a really weird feeling. This is the second occasion it happened. If I do enough squats I just puke.
Once I saw Lee Priest puke after squats, so I don't feel so bad.....
03/01/2010
Contributor: NightNight NightNight
One time I was at my parent's with my husband and before going out to dinner we made love. But I got an intense feeling of dread and doom afterwards that had me literally hiding under the covers for nearly 30 minutes.

Pretty sure my parents thought we kept everyone waiting because we couldn't stop screwing each other haha
09/22/2010