New to this site…great site! Newly married(2 months), 2nd time, my wife is 52, went into menopause around 40. I really do enjoy making love to my wife, but it’s nearly impossible for her to have an orgasm from me. She’s only had a couple orgasms from men. She almost always needs to finger herself because she’s usually confused as to where her g-spot is from time to time. I’m trying to get her to show me but she can be a bit impatient at times. We just bought a Slimline and that has worked pretty good for her. She just tried an enhancing oil called Zestra which she really liked. I’m just starting to do some research regarding heightening her ability to have an orgasm, especially from me. Her clitoris seems to be non-existent…doesn’t seem to have much feeling. Any suggestions re enhancing lubricants, toys, etc. would be fgreatly appreciated. Hormone therapy is an option, but has its risks also. Thanks in advance, PS