I usually give my self a bit of foreplay in the shower.
Sex Fact: Masturbation
06/21/2011
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I used to be able to just skip the foreplay if I wanted to get to the good stuff (orgasm), unfortunately with the antidepressants I am on, it is necessary to get myself really going if there is to be even a chance of me getting off. it sucks.
Originally posted by
Kayla
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational
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While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational ideas for masturbation (that would even work for males too!)
-Understand your anatomy and how to works to provide the most possible pleasure.
-Massage yourself with a light, all-over body massage to help get yourself in the mood. You can use massage oil or a little vibrator.
-Do your kegels regularly. Kegel muscles can strength your pelvic floor muscles and help draw blood into the area.
-Use sex toys. Many women happily use sex toys and find that orgasm is much easier once a sex toy is brought into the picture.
-Mutual masturbation. While masturbating on your own can be fun, you can masturbate with a partner can add a whole new dimension.
Learn more sex facts like this in the Sex: How to do Everything book by Em and Lo.
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-Understand your anatomy and how to works to provide the most possible pleasure.
-Massage yourself with a light, all-over body massage to help get yourself in the mood. You can use massage oil or a little vibrator.
-Do your kegels regularly. Kegel muscles can strength your pelvic floor muscles and help draw blood into the area.
-Use sex toys. Many women happily use sex toys and find that orgasm is much easier once a sex toy is brought into the picture.
-Mutual masturbation. While masturbating on your own can be fun, you can masturbate with a partner can add a whole new dimension.
Learn more sex facts like this in the Sex: How to do Everything book by Em and Lo.
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06/21/2011
I generally (but not always) just jump right into masturbation. I've only ever climaxed a few times with a partner (and nothing extra), but I climax regularly and easily using toys.
06/22/2011
I never "foreplay" myself, but then again I usually just cut to the chase with partner sex too. Foreplay's not really my thing. Physical foreplay, anyway---mental's sort of continually going on.
06/22/2011
Yes, I masturbate, but I seem to seriously misuse the concept. I don't take any of the advice given, like take your time and explore your body. There's just no time!
As to foreplay, I prefer the woman doing it to me, and me doing it to her. Actually, I don't think I've ever masturbated myself when a woman was around to do it. I might have, though, and just can't remember.
As to foreplay, I prefer the woman doing it to me, and me doing it to her. Actually, I don't think I've ever masturbated myself when a woman was around to do it. I might have, though, and just can't remember.
06/28/2011
Depends on weather or not I know I have time alone for foreplay.
06/28/2011
I really enjoy it!
06/30/2011
I didn't start masturbating until I was about eighteen, but have been having sex since sixteen. I've always been able to orgasm from straight intercourse, and couldn't figure out how to via masturbation until late in the game with the help of one of my ex-boyfriends. He loved going down on me and fingering me and through him I learned what I liked and just repeated what he did. Is it me or is that a little backwards? lol
06/30/2011
I HAVE to have some self-"foreplay" in order to get off, even if it's just laying there and fantasizing for a a while.
08/02/2011
Sometiems I'll do my own foreplay other times I'll just jump right into it lol. depends on my mood ^^
08/31/2011
I masturbate, sometimes I warm myself up, other times I don't... It doesn't really seem to make much difference. Over-all, though, I've found it to be more difficult to orgasm from masturbation than from sex. With my partner, it usually takes me about 10 minutes to get off, on my own, it takes me anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour and a half... I suspect it's because I'm demisexual, though.
08/31/2011
Masturbation is a sure fire winner.
08/31/2011
its a necessity to learn your body
10/06/2011
When I masturbate I generally jump right in.
10/11/2011
Everyone should masturbate. Everyone!
10/11/2011
Masturbation is a huge part of my life. I have to recharge my Salsa every day.
10/11/2011
I love to masturbate!
10/11/2011
Sorry, I don't masturbate on my own. I get enough from Husband to satisfy me.
10/14/2011
For a while I stopped masturbating because I wasn't really all that into it. Now that I have to ask permission to masturbate it makes it that much more enjoyable & rewarding. -^^-
10/14/2011
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On EF, I think this pole may be a bit bias lol
Originally posted by
Kayla
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational
...
more
While some women can not climax during intercourse, many can during masturbation. Em and Lo say that it may take a bit of practice, but many women can climax within minutes when they learn how to use their own hands. Em and Lo list some inspirational ideas for masturbation (that would even work for males too!)
-Understand your anatomy and how to works to provide the most possible pleasure.
-Massage yourself with a light, all-over body massage to help get yourself in the mood. You can use massage oil or a little vibrator.
-Do your kegels regularly. Kegel muscles can strength your pelvic floor muscles and help draw blood into the area.
-Use sex toys. Many women happily use sex toys and find that orgasm is much easier once a sex toy is brought into the picture.
-Mutual masturbation. While masturbating on your own can be fun, you can masturbate with a partner can add a whole new dimension.
Learn more sex facts like this in the Sex: How to do Everything book by Em and Lo.
Do you masturbate (males and females)? Have you tried some of these suggestions while masturbating or to get yourself in the mood? less
-Understand your anatomy and how to works to provide the most possible pleasure.
-Massage yourself with a light, all-over body massage to help get yourself in the mood. You can use massage oil or a little vibrator.
-Do your kegels regularly. Kegel muscles can strength your pelvic floor muscles and help draw blood into the area.
-Use sex toys. Many women happily use sex toys and find that orgasm is much easier once a sex toy is brought into the picture.
-Mutual masturbation. While masturbating on your own can be fun, you can masturbate with a partner can add a whole new dimension.
Learn more sex facts like this in the Sex: How to do Everything book by Em and Lo.
Do you masturbate (males and females)? Have you tried some of these suggestions while masturbating or to get yourself in the mood? less
12/24/2011
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But people did!
Originally posted by
Bunnycups
I doubt anyone will answer "No, I do not masturbate."
12/27/2011
I do occasionally masturbate but honestly prefer the foreplay that comes before it as it just seems to bring me and my partner closer.
01/22/2012
I don't usually work myself up before hand.
01/22/2012
Foreplay can be fun, and when I'm doing an extended solo session, I'll include some foreplay. Other times, I prefer to get off and go to sleep. It depends on what I'm in the mood for.
01/22/2012
i have but not that often
01/23/2012
I don't masturbate anymore, but when I did toys and relaxing really helped.
01/24/2012
I can usually get myself raring to go by visualizing things that turn me on... so I guess I need very little foreplay before masturbating (with a toy)...
01/26/2012
Yes I do, but how it starts depends on what toys I'm wanting to use, and how much time/privacy I have. I need zero warm-up for a clitoral vibe, and quite a lot for any kind of enjoyable insertion.
02/02/2012
I don't do a whole lot of self-foreplay, but it might be nice.
02/04/2012
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I was going to say the same thing!
Originally posted by
Lady Venus
I'm always masturbating. I can get myself off clitorally within seconds, and can squirt within 5 minutes. But as for foreplay I like it to take it slow. We'll either masturbate together, or he does it for me.
02/05/2012