Squirting

There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not entirely sure yet it would be something I would strive to do or not, but I want to hear what you all think about it.

From women that can/have, how do you do it? Is it good? Do you like it? Do you want to do it more/less? Is it very messy (there's a topic about this)? Why is it messy? Is it like.. really projectile?

And I'd like to hear from partners of women too - is that sexy/attractive/hot/di sgusting/weird?? Do you wish your partner could squirt? Do you wish she couldn't? Why? less

Weirdly timely question for me, since I just had my first partner sex "squirting" experience last night, and it was kind of wildly awesome.

I learned to squirt a few months ago on my own with my Slimline G vibe. I thought it was ok, kind of intreiging but not really that great compared to a "normal" orgasm. So I kind of just let it drop.

But last night my bf was doing such a lovely job on my g-spot with his fingers combined with some seriously delightful oral action that I requested he use my Squirt vibe (good name, apparently). I would describe the result as more of a "flow" or a "gush" than a "squirt." It was not projectile, but it was copious. We were on the couch, but I managed to hit the (wood) floor, and the resulting liquid took an entire bath towel to sop up.

If I had hit the couch or the bed, there is no way in hell that it would ever be the same with that amount of liquid involved. My previous solo experiences were easily contained by a towel or two, but not this one. As for the ejaculate itself, it was clear, almost odorless and very watery (i.e. not sticky or viscous at all). For me the "mess" would mainly be the sheer amount of fluid involved. Think spilling a large glass of water.

Some of the best advice I found for learning to squirt (and I really wish I could remember where I read this so that I could give proper credit) was to practice somewhere where you wouldn't be stressed about making a mess. For example, in a bathtub lined with towels for comfort. Then you should make yourself a deal that if you pee, well, then you pee. Whatever, it will be ok.

This was really useful advice for me because in someways I did find that I had to embrace the "have to pee" feeling that comes with g-spot stimulation before I could squirt. less

I know I've said this before but the keys are freeing yourself from worrying about peeing, either with numerous folded towels or my squirting into the bathtub. And it helps to have a non-empty bladder. Sensation is so much more intense that way.

I absolutely love it even though they're not quite as strong as clitoral orgasms yet. I'm working on that with daily kegels - another key to success.

My partner really loves it too.

It tends to be quite projectile for me. And don't worry if they're weak when you first have them. They'll strengthen. less

There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not entirely sure yet it would be something I would strive to do or not, but I want to hear what you all think about it.

From women that can/have, how do you do it? Is it good? Do you like it? Do you want to do it more/less? Is it very messy (there's a topic about this)? Why is it messy? Is it like.. really projectile?

And I'd like to hear from partners of women too - is that sexy/attractive/hot/di sgusting/weird?? Do you wish your partner could squirt? Do you wish she couldn't? Why? less

There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not entirely sure yet it would be something I would strive to do or not, but I want to hear what you all think about it.

From women that can/have, how do you do it? Is it good? Do you like it? Do you want to do it more/less? Is it very messy (there's a topic about this)? Why is it messy? Is it like.. really projectile?

And I'd like to hear from partners of women too - is that sexy/attractive/hot/di sgusting/weird?? Do you wish your partner could squirt? Do you wish she couldn't? Why? less

There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not entirely sure yet it would be something I would strive to do or not, but I want to hear what you all think about it.

From women that can/have, how do you do it? Is it good? Do you like it? Do you want to do it more/less? Is it very messy (there's a topic about this)? Why is it messy? Is it like.. really projectile?

And I'd like to hear from partners of women too - is that sexy/attractive/hot/di sgusting/weird?? Do you wish your partner could squirt? Do you wish she couldn't? Why? less

Ejaculation is easier for me when sitting or even standing than laying. My ejaculate varies between a tiny amount and a large amount even when I have emptied my bladder. Usually it doesn't go very far. When I first started with fingers it was only a small amount which ended up on my hand. I now do it with toys, especially the a chilled or superwarmed Alumina Revolve. It is messy because it will soak through a single unfolded towel and I am going to have to get a throe. I have to be in the right mindframe to do it though, in front of a partner has proven to be trickier than I thought it might be but otherwise I have hardly any trouble. It's maybe because it feels really personal like other bodily functions. I love ejaculating so I hope my partner likes it as much as I do. less

It's so interesting to hear about everyone's different experiences. For most people it seems like a G-spot thing. For me, it's a clitoral thing, and I can control it (prevent squirting) but if I do, I still have an orgasm but don't feel satisfied. The only way I feel "finished" is when I have a big squirt. Usually for me, the volume increases with the number of orgasms, so the first one might be more like a small gush or dribble, and it takes till the third or fourth one when I'm projectiling off the end of the bed and finally feel relaxed and done. Yes, it's a mess and I have lots of towels to wash afterward, but it is worth it because otherwise I still feel unsatisfied or frustrated. I am shy about squirting with a partner, so it is a sad irony that I almost always have multiple orgasms with a guy, and yet I'm still sexually frustrated because I didn't get to squirt. I've never heard of anyone else with this problem, so it seems kind of weird. Squirting only happened one time with a partner, it was completely overwhelming and involuntary, and it was probably the best orgasm I'd ever had, ever, but he was a little freaked out by the mess, which also really inhibited me from doing it when anyone else is around. So for me, being a squirter has its downside for sure. I wish I could be happy with nonsquirting orgasms. less

BPlucky13

I'm not sure why you're reluctant to squirt with a partner. My wife was not aware of her ability to squirt (she now calls it gushing). Once I convinced her that it's not urine she was game to learn.

I love the feeling as she gushes on me - usually in the cowgirl position so she can get the motion just right. We have a Liberator throe to keep the bed dry.

Now that she has gotten comfortable with her ability - it's happening more often than not. This is actually very gratifying for me.

Now I'm curious - does she not feel 'complete' unless she gushes! less

Now im wondering if someone who learns to squirt experiences it in the same way someone who it comes naturaly too does. Does it become a necessity generally?

Also how well does that Liberator throe work for the contain the larger gushes.
i dont know if i would use one, it seems like it would be uncomfortable after and still relatively messy. less