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Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
To some, this may be a myth. To others, its a grand slam home run experience!

I don't get to experience it a lot--Im either climaxing first (it usually doesn't take long lol) and then I'm playing catch up to try to finish with my husband. Or, its reversed, he's way too excited over something I did and I'm racing to catch up. So, there you have it. Its a complex mix of patience, I suppose

What are your experiences? If you are a Pro, what words of wisdom are you able to share.
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04/11/2015
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Only sometimes. He always makes me come first by oral and fingers, but if I'm still extremely sensitive after my first orgasm and he thrusts at a precise angle, I can come again while he's having his.
04/11/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
This only happenes once in a blue moon for us. I've pretty much given up on that. Besides, I like it better when my partner is in the throes of the orgasm and I'm told to go harder.
04/11/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Depends on whom I'm with.
04/11/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
To some, this may be a myth. To others, its a grand slam home run experience!

I don't get to experience it a lot--Im either climaxing first (it usually doesn't take long lol) and then I'm playing catch up to try to finish with my ... more
Now she is on birth control... but when she was not on birth control...

All three kids were born because of a synchronized orgasm. We both insist that we know the exact time and moment our kids were concieved. Originally she didn't say anything to me and I didn't say anything to her because we both felt silly saying it... one night after a bottle of wine we both came out with it and we both insisted on the same exact times. Crazy right?

Either way I found success truthfully with slowing down and pulling out (Without cumming obvioulsy) so that my senses dull and I can back away from the edge for a little bit.

I am also a huge fan of pulling out and going down on her back and forth from sex to oral to keep her going while I cool down and keep a good level of arrousal. Plus that... Shes incredibly wet... (Yeah I know im naughty)

Usually after playing control your "O" and keeping her going I can drive it in for the win LMAO!
04/12/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Now she is on birth control... but when she was not on birth control...

All three kids were born because of a synchronized orgasm. We both insist that we know the exact time and moment our kids were concieved. Originally she didn't say ... more
LMAO Not naughty--awesome! Yay her.

Ever since your 'method reveal' we've been playing around with it. At times, I have to say, I feel like I'm spinning from being stopped and flipped so much (the whole him slowing himself down thing ) lol. I don't know from one minute to the next if we'll be having sex or unubruptly flipped off, sideways, doggy style , you name it, for some going down action! My mind is reeling half the time lol. Talk about Rollercoaster LMAO
04/12/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
LMAO Not naughty--awesome! Yay her.

Ever since your 'method reveal' we've been playing around with it. At times, I have to say, I feel like I'm spinning from being stopped and flipped so much (the whole him slowing himself ... more
I cant tell you how good that makes me feel that you guys were able to use my method. Thats the type of secret you love telling somebody. If I can make your sex life better that makes me feel awesome!

I know the being stopped and flipped part drives you nuts but the cool thing about that is for a guy being aroused to the point of an orgasm and stopping builds and builds the fluid he is going to ejaculate to the point of feeling you are going to burst and then that orgasm is crazy. Think about popping a balloon.... the fuller the balloon the louder the bang. If your guys prostate is full to the point of no return and you make him ejaculate it feels incredible.

Normal quick lets get it in sex is go go go bang. Extended sex allows you to enjoy the journey which I love feeling her body and being brought to orgasm just as much as having an orgasm. Man the longer the better!

I am so happy I could help!
04/12/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I cant tell you how good that makes me feel that you guys were able to use my method. Thats the type of secret you love telling somebody. If I can make your sex life better that makes me feel awesome!

I know the being stopped and flipped part ... more
Oh and one last thing... the goal is to keep you hot. To be more specific (since you are interested...) We use a small (Leopard skin) flat pillow about an inch and a half wide that we keep in our bedroom. We put it under the small of her back while we have sex and that brings her up just a little bit and allows me more direct contact to her G-Spot. Not much just an inch and a half makes a HUGE difference. And DO NOT prop the rest of your back up just your hips. (Its also such a small difference that it isn't uncomfortable for you.) Its similar to the superman position I was speaking about a while back. Its like kind of a cheat LOL!

This works two fold.... Not only can I hit her G-Spot easier but I can also taste her easier by having her an inch and a half up above the bed. Its like having her on display for me and its easier for me to take my time when I am comfortable. This also allows me to massage her legs stomach and ass while because its easy to get my arms all around her. Its like a new Hellcat Challenger on display just for me, its like a huge enticement to see her on display on that pillow with her looking down and me while my tongue is exploring her... Yep I can have her and eat her too !
04/12/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Oh and one last thing... the goal is to keep you hot. To be more specific (since you are interested...) We use a small (Leopard skin) flat pillow about an inch and a half wide that we keep in our bedroom. We put it under the small of her back while ... more
And you know... it is worth saying, for those trying... it really isn't the easiest thing to cum at the same time. It takes a lot of practice and a lot of time.
04/12/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
And you know... it is worth saying, for those trying... it really isn't the easiest thing to cum at the same time. It takes a lot of practice and a lot of time.
I can attest, its definitely a challenge, a worthwhile one at that, one that isn't going g to happen over night lol. Still mastering it lol (with no complaint). Truly, I do love being flipped all over the place. He's so worked up by that point, his strength takes over and its hard telling where I might end up on that bed lol. I LOVE IT. Its very HOT.

Ive never thought to use a pillow at the small of my back. We've used them usually under the butt and such but that's something I will definitely try. The way you describe it is just beautiful and frankly sexy as hell. Who doesn't want to be a Hellcat Challenger. Sign me up!!

I must have missed your Superman dealio lol. So thank you for the cliff notes version . I love the forum for all of this helpfulness. Everyone and their useful tips just ROCK.
04/13/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I can attest, its definitely a challenge, a worthwhile one at that, one that isn't going g to happen over night lol. Still mastering it lol (with no complaint). Truly, I do love being flipped all over the place. He's so worked up by that ... more
huh... I thought you even commented on the superman thing....

Anyway what it is is you lie flat on your stomach with the pillow under the lower area of your stomach. Once again only a small pillow for just a little boost. Your guy gets on top of your legs and enters you from behind almost like you would be superman and the person on top is being given a ride.

The reason I like this is that you can penetrate really deep and at an angle that not only hits the G Spot but it is hitting it dead on with a lot of pressure.

I am telling you... you will eventually get turned on just seeing that special pillow!
04/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
huh... I thought you even commented on the superman thing....

Anyway what it is is you lie flat on your stomach with the pillow under the lower area of your stomach. Once again only a small pillow for just a little boost. Your guy gets on top ... more
Lol!!! I'm running out for a special cheetah print pillow!!!

I want to be Super Girl!!!
04/17/2015
Contributor: Livia Drew Livia Drew
As is often the case with women in heterosexual relationships, I'm slower to orgasm than my male partner. Because of this, we generally warm me up first before we engage in mutual play. We still only reach orgasm together very rarely, but it's nice when you're in the same "zone" even if you don't come at the same exact time.
04/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We may have experienced this at the most 2-3 times. It's hard to tell when she reached orgasm. And she never likes to say so.
04/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
We may have experienced this at the most 2-3 times. It's hard to tell when she reached orgasm. And she never likes to say so.
Really, no shouting from the rooftops???

The louder the better lol. I guess that's why I will practically dance on water when we have an empty house loL. Nothing gets held back on either end and I'm in heaven!!!
04/17/2015
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Really, no shouting from the rooftops???

The louder the better lol. I guess that's why I will practically dance on water when we have an empty house loL. Nothing gets held back on either end and I'm in heaven!!!
Same here! It's not fun when I have to keep my noise down!
04/18/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Really, no shouting from the rooftops???

The louder the better lol. I guess that's why I will practically dance on water when we have an empty house loL. Nothing gets held back on either end and I'm in heaven!!!
Somehow I think I got the wrong thought when you said "either end"

Have a great weekend !
04/18/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Somehow I think I got the wrong thought when you said "either end"

Have a great weekend !
And there you have it, peeps! My mouth often gets me into trouble when it just spouts off without me thinking twice about the double meaning I just spewed. Lol. Oh what the pretty picture that must have painted . Speaking of 'ends'....my Njoy just arrived...YAY ME (hopefully)... I'm dying to fully put him to the test
04/18/2015
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Congrats Vnessa! Don't forget to warm up with a finger first before you insert your njoy, and don't forget to use lots of lube too!
04/18/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Rossie
Congrats Vnessa! Don't forget to warm up with a finger first before you insert your njoy, and don't forget to use lots of lube too!
Will do . I hope to give an update on it!
04/18/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Rossie
Congrats Vnessa! Don't forget to warm up with a finger first before you insert your njoy, and don't forget to use lots of lube too!
Agreed! Enjoy your Njoy.
04/18/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
And there you have it, peeps! My mouth often gets me into trouble when it just spouts off without me thinking twice about the double meaning I just spewed. Lol. Oh what the pretty picture that must have painted . Speaking of 'ends'....my ... more
Awesome! We want one!
04/18/2015
Contributor: pirata pirata
It's fun, but it's not substantially more fun than just normal finishing. Like, my head enjoys it, but it doesn't up my bodily pleasure.
04/18/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Rossie
Only sometimes. He always makes me come first by oral and fingers, but if I'm still extremely sensitive after my first orgasm and he thrusts at a precise angle, I can come again while he's having his.
They should teach this in Sex Ed class - always, repeat always get your girl to orgasm first!!!!

All of our 'synchronized' orgasms happen after her first - even better after her 2nd or 3rd!

She says she feels sorry for men - who are mostly one-and-done (especially 60+ yearolds like me). She says its God's reward for a life time of periods! She's happy with the trade off!
04/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
They should teach this in Sex Ed class - always, repeat always get your girl to orgasm first!!!!

All of our 'synchronized' orgasms happen after her first - even better after her 2nd or 3rd!

She says she feels sorry for men - who ... more
Oh, if ONLY they did teach this . It would save couples a lot of time trying to remaster a few things down the road.
04/20/2015
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Vnessa
To some, this may be a myth. To others, its a grand slam home run experience!

I don't get to experience it a lot--Im either climaxing first (it usually doesn't take long lol) and then I'm playing catch up to try to finish with my ... more
My wife and I have been able to attain simultaneous orgasms a few times, however it does not happen all that frequently. It seems the times where it had occured were when we were both very amped up, either by extended foreplay or just having had sex on our minds for the whole day and finally getting to it. Usually it works out best if she has an orgasm once, either by me pleasing her orally or from intercourse, with manual stimulation added. Because I almost always take a long time to climax, much longer than her, then when she begins to focus on my arousal, as I get closer, she will also get more exited. When the moment finally arrives, and I go off, she may too, or at least fairly close to me. While the mutual climax is very exciting, from my point of view I prefer they mostly be separate as I love to enjoy her in the throes of passion, then, I can concentrate on my own climax.
03/30/2016
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Sometimes it works out that we both orgasm at the same time but more often I try to hold off until Wifey has orgasmed before I really push for my own.
03/19/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
My wife and I have been able to attain simultaneous orgasms a few times, however it does not happen all that frequently. It seems the times where it had occured were when we were both very amped up, either by extended foreplay or just having had sex ... more
Our experience is very similar. If she has had 1 or 2 orgasms 1st, it seems easier to get our signals coordinated for a mutual-orgasm.

We did it last night - but what was more impressive was that after cumming together - I brought her to at least 4 or 5 more crashing screaming peaks. She literally couldn't stand by the time we were done.

She often expresses her pity that I can have so few orgasms compared to her. She considers it her reward for a lifetime of periods.
03/19/2017
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
For us, simultaneous orgasms are more of a side effect when the bonking's just so good. We synchronize pretty quickly, but then I would go around having 3= orgasms, and he just has to keep up. Sometimes we'll go off at the same time, sometimes the gap is just a couple of seconds, so we count those times in, as well. And I can't say if it depends on something specific that we do or don't do - it just happens if we're at the right stage of arousal.
10/22/2018