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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife has never squirted, and we would love to learn how she can do this. Are there any ladies who couldn't squirt at one time, but learned, who can give us any tips? If you've always been able to squirt, you're input would be appreciated as well.

Thank you!
01/14/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has never 'squirted' in an ejaculatory way. She's a gusher. During a particularly strong or long orgasm she will experience a much greater than normal discharge of fluid. It's thinner than normal lubrication and feels quite warm as it travels along our skin.

There are two circumstances where we achieve this experience - both involve deep vaginal stimulation. The area known as the a-spot or AFE Zone is where the vagina and cervix meet. It has been pretty well documented that stimulation of this area increases vaginal lubrication by a substantial amount. link

Method 1: My wife is a real cowgirl. She loves being on top. When she is she can position the head of my erection just where it feels best. Although she may do some thrusting - I describe it more as grinding. This motion also allows for her clitoris to be stimulated by my pubic bone - even the SS Omega ring I wear most of the time. While all this is going on I am either working her hips with my hands - or massaging her breasts - sometimes with some fairly strong nipple tweaks as her orgasm begins.

Method 2: This is an all toy affair. It involves a fairly large penetrating toy like the Vixskin Maverick or the G4 Big Boss vibrator - coupled with her mystic wand clitoral vibe. Variations include a finger or vibrator in her ass. I watch carefully as she becomes more aroused - the penetrating toy will press deeper in side. If I try to go too deep too soon - it hurts. But as she falls deeper into the experience - she sighs and on the exhale the toy will go deeper.

I'd say that the gushing occurs about 15-20% of the time when using either Method 1 or 2.

Good luck and enjoy trying!
01/14/2013
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
Wish we could help :\

We're also still trying to learn.
01/26/2013
Contributor: Xerobound Xerobound
Massaging the clit with a thick lubricant worked for me.
01/27/2013
Contributor: lahtedah lahtedah
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Originally posted by Martiniman
My wife has never squirted, and we would love to learn how she can do this. Are there any ladies who couldn't squirt at one time, but learned, who can give us any tips? If you've always been able to squirt, you're input would be ... more
I am 26 years old and never squirted once in my life until last week. I heard about it and saw it in a porn movie and I wanted to do it. I turned to the internet to learn how. What I found was many confusing and contradictory articles. My husband and I tried several techniques to no avail. One day I read an article written by a guy that said just encourage her to bear down and if it feels like u have to pee just push it out. So then the next time my husband and I had sex he gave me oral sex then intercourse missionary position and he finished and I still hadn't orgasmed. So he laid beside me and manipulated my clitoris with his hand to help me finish. I was intensely aroused at this point and my clit was becoming sensitive almost to the point of being painful and normally I would've said stop stop stop lol but I remembered the article and I bore down. I instantly felt the extreme need to pee I told him I may pee on him he said let it go and so I did...the sensitivity was tolerable for the first time as I was pushing and the next thing u know a warm mini fountain sprang forth. It feels like pee when its coming out but the liquid was assuredly not pee. It was clear odorless and sweet and I still had to pee when finished. Well the moral of the story is since then I pee immediately before sex so I'm more comfortable and when I feel close to orgasm I try with all my might to pee and instead I squirt fountains lol I can do it multiple times now back to back with penile penetration or intense clitoral stimulation don't really know about the gspot method need more practice... Just encourage her to try and pee on you and beardown and push out right before and during orgasm instead of clenching down and holding it in and essentially stopping herself
05/27/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
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Originally posted by lahtedah
I am 26 years old and never squirted once in my life until last week. I heard about it and saw it in a porn movie and I wanted to do it. I turned to the internet to learn how. What I found was many confusing and contradictory articles. My husband and ... more
Interesting. My girlfriend has had this needing to pee issue multiple times, and she always has me stop because she's afraid she'll pee on me and get terribly embarrassed, even after peeing before we started do anything. I'll present her with this information. Thanks!
06/03/2013