We're not going through any sort of weird stage or anything. Still satisfied and no complaints. However, I'd like to surprise him somehow with some anal because we haven't done it in a while. Mainly because I am having a lot of discomfort. Curious if anyone knows some tips on how to make it less uncomfortable. I have no problem when I use toys or when we used to do it. But lately my bum is just so over sensitive. It isn't painful but more if a feeling like I am going to (excuse me for this) accidentally use the restroom on him. This even happens if I have already gone or used an enema.
Trying to spice things up with hubby (anal sex)
12/03/2012
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Hmmmm... My first advice would be to speak to a doctor about this. Might be early signs of IBS or might be psychological as well. So speaking to a doctor is really a good idea.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
We're not going through any sort of weird stage or anything. Still satisfied and no complaints. However, I'd like to surprise him somehow with some anal because we haven't done it in a while. Mainly because I am having a lot of
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We're not going through any sort of weird stage or anything. Still satisfied and no complaints. However, I'd like to surprise him somehow with some anal because we haven't done it in a while. Mainly because I am having a lot of discomfort. Curious if anyone knows some tips on how to make it less uncomfortable. I have no problem when I use toys or when we used to do it. But lately my bum is just so over sensitive. It isn't painful but more if a feeling like I am going to (excuse me for this) accidentally use the restroom on him. This even happens if I have already gone or used an enema.
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If you're alright I suggest to use a plug like the Ryder mainly because of it's rather perfect size and good material and overall great design. Leave it inserted before you have intercourse and during vaginal intercourse, that will ease thing up massively. My girlfriend is doing it almost all the time, because she quite sensitive down there.
Hope to have helped!
12/07/2012
Perhaps try with shallow penetrations or external stimulation before ramping up to the full deal?
12/16/2012
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slow and lots of lube. use some toys to work your way up to his size
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
We're not going through any sort of weird stage or anything. Still satisfied and no complaints. However, I'd like to surprise him somehow with some anal because we haven't done it in a while. Mainly because I am having a lot of
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more
We're not going through any sort of weird stage or anything. Still satisfied and no complaints. However, I'd like to surprise him somehow with some anal because we haven't done it in a while. Mainly because I am having a lot of discomfort. Curious if anyone knows some tips on how to make it less uncomfortable. I have no problem when I use toys or when we used to do it. But lately my bum is just so over sensitive. It isn't painful but more if a feeling like I am going to (excuse me for this) accidentally use the restroom on him. This even happens if I have already gone or used an enema.
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12/24/2012
For me the biggest thing with anal is....relax.
12/30/2012
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