Guys - do you want your significant other to put toys or finger in your anus during foeplay? sonetimes or never?

Guys - do you want your significant other to put toys or finger in your anus during foeplay? sonetimes or never?

Herzer Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
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23  (66%)
7  (20%)
5  (14%)
Total votes: 35
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Bubba29 Bubba29
i would love if sh played down there. she is grossed out by it although she loves me playing with hers.
06/02/2013
surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
Answering for my partner, he is quite opposed to anal play for either of us. Luckily, I am as well, so we're a perfect match in that regard.
06/02/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Absolutely love it - it took my wife a little while to get use to it, but she's OK with it now.
06/02/2013
married with children married with children
sometimes, it all depends on how I feel.
06/02/2013
Rossie Rossie
Answering for my husband - he's totally against having anything in there.
06/02/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Not opposed to it, but not necessary each time. I would like some play but it would need to be a longer foreplay session.
06/03/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Yes, it helps the session last longer and is more fun.
06/03/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Yes, but she doesn't..have to insert stuff myself.
06/03/2013
Ciao. Ciao.
Most of the time, definitely.
06/03/2013
Jaybird Jaybird
I don't particularly enjoy it, which ends up working out nicely as my girlfriend thinks it's a bit icky anyway,
06/03/2013
Feisty Feisty
No, I am not interested in that.
06/03/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We do and we both enjoy it, it isn't all the time, as most of the foreplay is geared towards me getting her hot and bothered, but there are times where she focuses on me during foreplay and fingers and toys are never out of reach from the bed or shower.
06/04/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Answering for him...Yes, please!
06/04/2013
John E W John E W
I love the feeling of it but she is not into anal. Giving nor receiving
06/04/2013
Aishiteru Aishiteru
My partner isn't into it.
06/16/2013
meitman meitman
I love when my wife does it.
06/18/2013
ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Yes to finger, yes to toy, yes please from both girl and boy
06/20/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
I like it a lot, and my wife has gotten used to it. And we don't do it all of the time, just when the mood hits.
06/21/2013
Thong man Thong man
We just started with some anal play during foreplay. We are currently just using a plug but look forward to a prostate massage
08/06/2013
jake53 jake53
my wife use's her finger, but I would love for her to use some nice toys or even peg me.
08/08/2013
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We just started doing this. Mainly because he gets so hard from it. Less work for me.
08/09/2013
Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'd be curious to try it, but my wife has absolutely no interest in any type of anal experimentation.
08/13/2013
Corydalis Corydalis
Tried it. Just made me feel like I had to use the bathroom, but got no particular pleasure out of it other than knowing we tried something new that night.
09/12/2013
Varmint Varmint
Sooo great getting BJ and prostate stim together!
09/13/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Absolutely love it - it took my wife a little while to get use to it, but she's OK with it now.
Update - looking at my response I'd have to say it's a bit understated.

My wife pretty much demands anal stimulation in one form or another during most activities.

Example; using a finger or two anally in combination with a dildo in her vagina is fantastic for her. I use my fingers to press the dildo up into her g-spot greatly enhancing the effect for her.
Oct 17, 8:45 pm
GingerAnn GingerAnn
For us, anal is an occasional treat - but it does work both sides. It's more frequent for me, it's more of a rare occasion for him. He certainly likes to play around my butt with his fingers, while I always "embark on an adventure" when I do oral on him.
Oct 22, 8:19 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
For us, anal is an occasional treat - but it does work both sides. It's more frequent for me, it's more of a rare occasion for him. He certainly likes to play around my butt with his fingers, while I always "embark on an adventure" ...
Although an old and tired cliché - "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

I for one can attest that having my wife try our various anal pleasure techniques on me - made me far better at understanding what would work for her. Simple things like learning the art of going slow, making sure things are over lubricated, pausing after entry to enable the person to adjust and progressing in size properly (tapered toys are invaluable).

It's the perfect couples activity. You don't have a penis and he doesn't have a vagina, but when it comes to anal there are a lot of similarities.

Tell him it's part of his education about how to do anal properly - maybe he'll 'loosen up' oh what a bad pun
Oct 22, 12:34 pm
GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Although an old and tired cliché - "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

I for one can attest that having my wife try our various anal pleasure techniques on me - made me far better at understanding what would ...
I know exactly what you mean - you're so correct.

Although the anal play does feel a bit different for guys, you have to agree on that. And I don't even mean psychological implications, of which there are enough, I'm only talking about plain anatomy stuff.

The stimulation of the P-spot must feel very special.

Also, for women, anal stimulation comes more naturally, especially during oral, for example, because there is a straight pathway down there. With men, you have to mingle a bit to dive deeper - I'm on to you with your puns
Nov 12, 7:19 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
I know exactly what you mean - you're so correct.

Although the anal play does feel a bit different for guys, you have to agree on that. And I don't even mean psychological implications, of which there are enough, I'm only talking ...
Maybe it's age related, but I don't get much out of prostate stimulation. I will admit that my wife doesn't put much effort into it - she thinks it's all about the pegging and that's fine with me!

As much as I enjoy rimming her, I do not let her do it to me - but you're right it takes a bit more effort to get the 'junk' out of the way
Nov 13, 10:26 pm
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 26