Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a little. Is there anything I can do to make it better for her?
Is there any possible romantic way to . . . give a blowjob? I mean, to me, it seems like there really is no way to be romantic about it. Sure, the favor can be romantic, but the act doesn't...
Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a
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Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a little. Is there anything I can do to make it better for her?
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Count yourself lucky she is at least orgasmic...lick around, not directly on the clit. Suck on the clit/labia like a vacuum.
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a battle going on between perception and reality, what feels light to you isn't light to her and it can be hard to nail down what she's looking for.
Her sensitivity could also be decreased by using vibrators with strong pulses and vibrations. It will take some time, but it does eventually happen. I'm willing to wager that most of us members of the Clit-o-Steel club didn't start out that way (I know I didn't).
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a
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Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a battle going on between perception and reality, what feels light to you isn't light to her and it can be hard to nail down what she's looking for.
Her sensitivity could also be decreased by using vibrators with strong pulses and vibrations. It will take some time, but it does eventually happen. I'm willing to wager that most of us members of the Clit-o-Steel club didn't start out that way (I know I didn't).
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Thanks! I'll definitely try it and see if that's the case.
Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a
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Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a little. Is there anything I can do to make it better for her?
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The other thing you can do is lick on the sides, not directly on her clit. It will provide a bit softer stimulation and might help her enjoy it longer.
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08/17/2012
gavind
Try massaging her thighs to for like 10 more minutes while kissing.
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a
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Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a battle going on between perception and reality, what feels light to you isn't light to her and it can be hard to nail down what she's looking for.
Her sensitivity could also be decreased by using vibrators with strong pulses and vibrations. It will take some time, but it does eventually happen. I'm willing to wager that most of us members of the Clit-o-Steel club didn't start out that way (I know I didn't).
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Good advice to start. That's a good way to help them communicate in a concrete manner.
As for Clits O Steel: mine was actually caused by premature peri-menopause. My issues were hormonal. I never even used a sex toy of any kind until I started having orgasm issues.
gavind
