how to stop crushing my partner during oral

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Contributor: curiouskat curiouskat
I need some advice on how to not a squeeze my thighs and tense my legs when I cum orally because it hurts my partners head or shoulders and I don't like knowing I am causing him so much pain and this has been the only way for me to achieve an orgasm so far (haven't been able to do it during sex) and I feel this might become a problem later on in our relationship
10/04/2018
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I prop her butt on a cushion covered by a towel. Then hold her legs with both arms apart and go to town. Or buy some straps / ties. Edenfantasys carries them. Sometimes I then use a dildo to make her squirt. Sometimes I leave her there wanting more and go for my morning cup of joe.

Call me mischievous
10/04/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by curiouskat
I need some advice on how to not a squeeze my thighs and tense my legs when I cum orally because it hurts my partners head or shoulders and I don't like knowing I am causing him so much pain and this has been the only way for me to achieve an ... more
Curiouskat, no worries, we're on it. We had literally the same problem, and the easiest way to solve it seemed to just keep my legs apart - but I couldn't bring myself to. That's when we opted for this gem - a spreader bar is a safe and deliciously kinky way to keep your partner safe from crushing. I believe any restraint that would keep your legs spread would work. For example, this restraint under-the-bed system is ought to be effective, as well.

Hope this helps!
Good luck
10/08/2018