So I have this various collection of sex toys ranging from plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos and even a strapless strapon. But here's the thing, I myself am not much into masturbating and would rather wait it out until I'm able to have a sexual partner there with me to have fun with. I enjoy having all my different toys just never really have the urge to put them to use when alone.. does there happen to be anyone else like this, and what do you think is the reasoning for this situation?
A little bit odd?
12/18/2019
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Dear Ali3n.qu33n!
I can not see a reason why it bothers you. Everyone has their own preferences, and this is absolutely normal. Somebody is more into masturbation, somebody likes sex with a partner, somebody prefers group sex, etc. The main thing is each person is happy and anybody doesn't hurt.
I think there is nothing wrong with loving partner sex more than solo sessions. I only would like to wish you to always have a great partner for lovemaking and enjoying all your toys together.
I can not see a reason why it bothers you. Everyone has their own preferences, and this is absolutely normal. Somebody is more into masturbation, somebody likes sex with a partner, somebody prefers group sex, etc. The main thing is each person is happy and anybody doesn't hurt.
I think there is nothing wrong with loving partner sex more than solo sessions. I only would like to wish you to always have a great partner for lovemaking and enjoying all your toys together.
12/18/2019
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Girl, I promise there is no reason for you to be concerned, and it happens a lot. Sex is a uniquely personal thing. Women especially, are more cerebral about a sexual encounter, we enjoy the intimacy and the connection as much as the physical sensation and toys don't replicate that. If you feel the need for a solo session, you have the equipment, but there is nothing wrong with preferring sex with a partner. If you are interested in trying something out and there isn't a partner around, phone sex can be a great way to still get that human connection while alone in your bed.
Originally posted by
Ali3n☆qu33n
So I have this various collection of sex toys ranging from plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos and even a strapless strapon. But here's the thing, I myself am not much into masturbating and would rather wait it out until I'm able to have a
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So I have this various collection of sex toys ranging from plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos and even a strapless strapon. But here's the thing, I myself am not much into masturbating and would rather wait it out until I'm able to have a sexual partner there with me to have fun with. I enjoy having all my different toys just never really have the urge to put them to use when alone.. does there happen to be anyone else like this, and what do you think is the reasoning for this situation?
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12/18/2019
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Thank you so very much for your input. Makes me feel less awkward about the whole situation, especially when theres others who tell me its strange or just inordinate.
Originally posted by
Leil@
Dear Ali3n.qu33n! I can not see a reason why it bothers you. Everyone has their own preferences, and this is absolutely normal. Somebody is more into masturbation, somebody likes sex with a partner, somebody prefers group sex, etc. The main thing is
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Dear Ali3n.qu33n! I can not see a reason why it bothers you. Everyone has their own preferences, and this is absolutely normal. Somebody is more into masturbation, somebody likes sex with a partner, somebody prefers group sex, etc. The main thing is each person is happy and anybody doesn't hurt. I think there is nothing wrong with loving partner sex more than solo sessions. I only would like to wish you to always have a great partner for lovemaking and enjoying all your toys together.
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12/21/2019
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I highly appreciate the response you gave, def makes me look at things quite a bit differently and will def remember what you've said for future reference as well. ??
Originally posted by
QueenofEverything81
Girl, I promise there is no reason for you to be concerned, and it happens a lot. Sex is a uniquely personal thing. Women especially, are more cerebral about a sexual encounter, we enjoy the intimacy and the connection as much as the physical
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more
Girl, I promise there is no reason for you to be concerned, and it happens a lot. Sex is a uniquely personal thing. Women especially, are more cerebral about a sexual encounter, we enjoy the intimacy and the connection as much as the physical sensation and toys don't replicate that. If you feel the need for a solo session, you have the equipment, but there is nothing wrong with preferring sex with a partner. If you are interested in trying something out and there isn't a partner around, phone sex can be a great way to still get that human connection while alone in your bed.
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12/21/2019
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I am similar to you in that playing with toys by myself is not a huge motivator.
Originally posted by
Ali3n☆qu33n
So I have this various collection of sex toys ranging from plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos and even a strapless strapon. But here's the thing, I myself am not much into masturbating and would rather wait it out until I'm able to have a
...
more
So I have this various collection of sex toys ranging from plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos and even a strapless strapon. But here's the thing, I myself am not much into masturbating and would rather wait it out until I'm able to have a sexual partner there with me to have fun with. I enjoy having all my different toys just never really have the urge to put them to use when alone.. does there happen to be anyone else like this, and what do you think is the reasoning for this situation?
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That said, I have played with a lot of toys by myself while anal training. I aimed to stretch my limits and learned to accommodate bigger and bigger toys over time. Which eventually led to being able to be fisted (which was never a goal of mine- I just reached a point where I could). I also learned to orgasm anally while playing solo, which was a major milestone for me, and was a goal.
I played/practiced solo for a number of years. I pretty much met my goals and pushed my limits beyond what I ever thought possible, and finally felt.. satisfied.
Now I enjoy using my acquired skills with partners but do not play with any toys solo.
12/22/2019
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