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Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
We've seen a lot of ads for the clothing optional/clothes-free/ european style resorts or other adult-oriented vacations, but we can't help thinking "Who has actually been to one of these? And are they as fun as advertised, or is it just a big letdown?"

So, in order to get some honest feedback, and not some rhetoric pasted on a travel website, we thought we'd ask many of you first! Would you go to, or have you been to an adults only destination? If you have, what were the pros and cons? If not, what would be your reasons to consider going, or not?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I would consider going to a clothing optional resort (nude beaches/pools, but clothing required everywhere else)
16
I would not consider going to a clothing optional resort (nude beaches/pools, but clothing required everywhere else)
11
I have been to a clothing optional resort (nude beaches/pools, but clothing required everywhere else)
1
I would consider going to a clothes-free resort (clothing not required in most areas)
12
I would not consider going to a clothes-free resort (clothing not required in most areas)
13
I have been to a clothes-free resort (clothing not required in most areas)
1
I would consider going to a european-style resort (topless sunbathing in designated areas)
20
I would not consider going to a european-style resort (topless sunbathing in designated areas)
3
I have been to a european-style resort (topless sunbathing in designated areas)
2
Other (as always, and please explain)
2
Total votes: 81 (40 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I think going to one of these places would be fun. I'm open for stuff like that, not sure about my current partner...
10/12/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
I think I'd go szomewhere where topless sunbaking was ok. I'm not that sexure in my plus sized form and don't think Id be comfortable with others seeing all of me. Heck I'm not sire if my bf has seen all of me naked yet!

But self confidence and body issues aside, I find clothing optional situations to sometimes uncomfortable. I really don't want to be seing old men naked, and of course such situations are like car accidents. You dont want to look but you cant help it.

But cheers to those who do enjoy it, even the old guys I don't want to see, Im envious of your body confidence.
10/12/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
I think I'd go szomewhere where topless sunbaking was ok. I'm not that sexure in my plus sized form and don't think Id be comfortable with others seeing all of me. Heck I'm not sire if my bf has seen all of me naked yet!

But ... more
The "old person" factor always seems to be the first thing people mention. So we're curious if that is a stigma, or who actually goes to these places. For those of you who have been, what is the average age of the people attending? Are you able to get past their age and talk to them as people, or too distracted?
10/13/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I personally would be more interested in going on a BDSM oriented vacation. There are some lovely bondage and breakfasts out there.
10/13/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
I personally would be more interested in going on a BDSM oriented vacation. There are some lovely bondage and breakfasts out there.
Hmm...good point.
Although, the BDSM almost seems to be a class of it's own. At least it is interactive and hands-on in ways the resorts listed above are not! Plus, you don't have to be fully nude to engage or enjoy some BDSM.
10/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Hmm... no one's been! Dang, 'cause I'd like to know about these destinations as well
10/15/2010
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I recently went to Jamaica and there was a nude beach attached to our resort. I realy wanted to go but my hubby seemed shy. When I got a look at who was going into the closed doors however, and I don't mean to sound rude but they were all of the really old people from the resort and my hubby and I were on our honeymoon. I would LOVE to try Hedonism however. It looks like a blast. I just want to go where I don't have to decide what to wear. That to me, would be the most carefree vacation I can imagine!

Besides, it's damn hot in the Carribean and I love swimming in the nude.
10/15/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by OhMy!
We've seen a lot of ads for the clothing optional/clothes-free/ european style resorts or other adult-oriented vacations, but we can't help thinking "Who has actually been to one of these? And are they as fun as advertised, or is it just ... more
Id like to go to a nude beach
02/07/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I'd rather just go to Disneyland
02/07/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I'd give it a shot. Why not?
02/07/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I'd do it. Seeing other people naked doesn't bother me and I've always wanted to try something like this, just for the hell of it.
02/07/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I want to go to a nude beach sometime, just because swimming naked is SO AMAZING. I didn't realize how annoying bathing suits are until I tried not wearing one. Let me tell you - fabulous!
02/08/2011
Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
I've been to a few clothing optional resorts (Hedonism II/Jamaica, Playa del Carmen/Mexico, Roselawn Indiana) and I loved it (naked babes everywhere). Are they fun? Hell ya! You can meet some very open minded, fun loving pleasure seekers at any of these resorts.
03/12/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Sounds like a fun idea but i'd never go
09/13/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i would love to go to a clothing optional place! i hate wearing clothes most of the time, so i think i would have a grand time with other like minded individuals lol
09/13/2011
Contributor: cocomo cocomo
people would need to be really clean in order for me to want to be around them naked
09/13/2011
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Quote:
Originally posted by cocomo
people would need to be really clean in order for me to want to be around them naked
The same is true for the amenities. We have this feeling it could turn into a National Lampoon's Naked Vacation nightmare!
10/06/2011
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Have never been, but would love to try it!
07/08/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
interesting!
03/03/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I've seen a few and I'd love to go one day.
03/03/2013