A minor, yet important point:

Female Ejaculation has to do with the swelling of the skeenes glands, which are the remnants of what would be a prostate in men, and are located around the urethra.

"Female Ejaculation" could be used to describe a variety of phenomena, including urination during intense orgasm, or a spraying of copious amounts of vaginal secretions due to muscle contraction during an intense orgasms.

The AFE is near the cervix. Skeenes glands are near the urethra. Most likely, those are distinct enough areas that direct massage of the AFE isn't going to result in female ejaculation for any reason other than general "we're hiving a good time here and that orgasm was HARD" reasons (similar to girls who squirt with clitoral orgasms - some are just wired that way!)

So, long point short, sounds like your wife is a lucky lady for being able to come super hard from AFE stimulation! (assuming that you're not just stroking by the gspot/skeenes glands as you spelunk for the AFE)

And as for the existance of the AFE? It's not super duper well studied, but is generally accepted that prodding/massage of it results in vaginal wetness. I have a fun zone in that general region, so I certainly believe it exists, and I know of female friends/partners who feel the same about themselves. I think physiologically there are more nerves there as well. On some women, it's tucked behind the cervix, and if bumping the cervix is uncomfortable, it will likely never be enjoyed, even if hit precisely, due to proximity of cervix. less