Are You Satisfied With Your Sexual Life?

Let's just say it doesn't take much to keep me satisfied. And I'm NOT talking about penis size. Just frequency.

I am happy with my self and my toys, plus I don't have to worry about the risks involved, although it would be nice to have a partner. ohh well.

I'm ok when it is just me and my favorites toys. I'm the only person that my boyfriend has been with. So, he is lucky if he lasts 3 minutes, and im just left unsatisified, and him pissed at himself

I voted that I'm almost fully satisfied but not quite, but it has nothing to do with my man. Right now we're in between apartments, staying at my parents' house, so it leaves little time for good sex. We do have sex, definitely not as often as I'd like and it's usually nothing special, but it's understandable that he doesn't want to disrespect my parents. When we're on our own though, it's crazy.. never a dull moment. The only thing I would ever change (when we're not under my parents' roof) is frequency, but it seems like most women feel the same way.

i will have to say i very much enjoy my sex life. i don't know how but it's never the same. it always feels new and exciting, even if its some position we have done hundreds of times.

I love my sex life, but there definitely can be room for improvement. One of the biggest obstacle is having a partner who's a little scared one trying new things.

could be better...

Just wish I had time for more!

I'm satisfied with it right now but it could still get better.

I'm pretty satisfied, but I tend to think there is ALWAYS room for something new.

I'm fine with my sex life. I wish I could improve it with more sex, but that is difficult for me to do since I am away at school and hence away from my partner.

Very satisfied!!!

Like anything else in life, nothing is perfect and there is always room for improvement. There are always new things to discover and try. That what makes it exciting.

Really, the only two things I would change is I wish I could orgasm without a vibrator, like I used to. I had a hair trigger orgasm ability, and peri-menopause robbed me of that. HRT and Kegal exercises (with my Smart Balls and alone) has really helped, as up until a few months ago, I was getting very frustrated about not orgasming or taking a really long time, even with a vibrator (and I'm talking about a plug in the wall heavy duty vibrator, a "massager" type.) He tries SO hard, and I know he wants to be able to "do it himself" as that was how it was for decades. I tell him again and again, it isn't him that is the problem, it's my hormones, he's doing a great job, and everything after the first orgasm is all due to his efforts. (I mean I play a part in it, of course.) My orgasms are much stronger (they've always been "head bangers" but they are amazing now) and they last a long time, much longer than they used to. I also have multiples and he loves when I come when he is going down, and it happens, but I always need the Wahl or the Hitachi (referred to as The Hibachi by My Man ) for the first one, after a very serious and heavy oral session given by him. It usually only takes a few minutes, now (with the occasional exception) but still. I want it perfect. I think it's a male pride thing with him. At least I'm having orgasms. Thank Heavens. For a while there I barely was having them. I was ready to go on a spree of some kind. I don't do well when I am sexually frustrated.

I would like a little more rough stuff, and restraint although he's a full time Alpha Male and very Dominant, I need the really rough stuff more than he chooses to give it out.

BUT, aside from that, we have an amazing sex life. I mean, amazing. Nighttime sex often blends into morning sex, with just blissful dozing in between (like last night and this morning. *sigh*) and it's.......wonderful. We both have very high sex drives so neither of us often is wanting it when the other doesn't. (He's older, so on occasion, I'm horny and he's.....asleep....) He has completly stopped the once irritating falling asleep during sex on occasion (I was nearly livid after a few times of this. I was really tired of the excuse, "I'm tired." So, we decided, if he's that tired, we'll skip it or he really had to make an effort to at least bring me to orgasm to not leave me frustrated. And it worked! He's not done this for months.)

I really have few complaints.

I never knew what my sex life was lacking until I met my current boyfriend. Now it's like a dream.

It's certainly a dream! Our sex-life is amazing. I swear my husband must read books to learn all his tricks. I never knew a man so hell bent on pleasing a woman before him. Granted, I never really knew a 'man' so to speak; I was 19 and he was 21 when we met. I asked him recently, if you weren't with very many women before me, then how did you know how to give oral so well?" I'd never had an orgasm from that before I met him. His answer was simply, "I read your body and it tells me what to do and what you like." I strive to follow his example.

I wish he was here now. This month is gonna suck, since my husband is away. I never knew sex could be so great and who would've thought, it's now been 18 years!

There are days that seem not so exciting but my wife and I are always willing to try something new and we can talk about it with one another. So I am completely satisfided~ <3

No. Don't get me wrong, our relationship outside sex is great, but the sexual side needs a lot of improvement. Actually, when we do have sex, it is totally amazing and she continually surprises me with the boundaries she is willing and desirous to break down. It's the frequency of sex that really gets to me. It is at best once a week. That's actually a huge improvement over when we were first married when it was on the order of once every month or two, but it is still doesn't meet my needs. Still, I can put up with just once a week if she would show me that she desired me sexually. It is obvious she loves me by her words and actions, but very rarely do I feel like she truly desires me. No cards, no notes, no seduction, little flirting-- it's frustrating. Most nights, it's almost like she does it out of duty, rather than out of desire. I've talked to her about it, but she doesn't really have an answer for me. I go all out trying to show her my desire for her, but not having it be reciprocated is tough. I guess I just need to keep plugging away and hope for the best.