Bad Sex?

Bad Sex?

TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Is there such a thing as "Bad Sex"?

Is sex even good or bad? Is it just sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Assify , hoser69
2  (5%)
Thong man , OH&W, Lovebears , Gunsmoke , Andykh , Honeymuffin33 , MissMandii , XxFallenAngelxX , C&K0143 , lala22 , Vnessa , unfulfilled , Kipperanne , Alan & Michele , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , konicaguy , Bsquared , Kat Vanir , sXeVegan90 , symbiasin , mfmtrios , Lvstoplay , Lena Eden , GingerMeggie , DancerKittyKat , MrClark , Stellar , merc41 , Mallorys , LoganSanguine , Freckles , pugtato , RogueMiki , justabitcurious
33  (82%)
TheToyGuy , RonLee
2  (5%)
edeneve , Inquisitor , ValerieRayne
3  (8%)
Total votes: 40
Poll is open
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Bad could be when drank too much or too too pooped/tucked out to do anything much. Bad could be a bad experience. A one nighter that turned out to be a horror story. (no, don't bother asking, won't tell )

Bad could be didn't get or turn out the way one expected. Bad could be ... so on and so forth.

Oh, very very bad could be getting caught by her younger sister when in the act. And she won't leave til you get up all naked and
09/25/2015
Andykh Andykh
I voted it can be good or bad for the simple reason that while I was with my ex the sex wasn't great at all and the 1and only 3some I've ever had sucked. Now that im married to the female version of me the sex is so awesome and has been since day 1 almost 8 years now.
09/26/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
I voted it can be good or bad for the simple reason that while I was with my ex the sex wasn't great at all and the 1and only 3some I've ever had sucked. Now that im married to the female version of me the sex is so awesome and has been since ...


So very happy to hear that !

Best to enjoy life while one can !

Out with the negative, in with the positive. Life too short to get upset, hold grudges, plot, etc, etc etc.
09/26/2015
Andykh Andykh
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears


So very happy to hear that !

Best to enjoy life while one can !

Out with the negative, in with the positive. Life too short to get upset, hold grudges, plot, etc, etc etc.
Lol so very true.
09/26/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I believe sex is "Sex is neither Good nor Bad its just experience at getting Better."

For example, and I'm not trying to sway anyone from their ideas. For example, an experienced mature woman has sex with a young virgin male.

From the prospective of the mature woman the sex was mediocre/bad.
From the prospective of the ex-virgin male the sex was awesome.

Over time the younger male becomes (may become) more experienced and thus better.

Good and Bad are therefore just perspectives.
09/27/2015
edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears


So very happy to hear that !

Best to enjoy life while one can !

Out with the negative, in with the positive. Life too short to get upset, hold grudges, plot, etc, etc etc.
ahhhh...who says so????
09/27/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I believe sex is "Sex is neither Good nor Bad its just experience at getting Better."

For example, and I'm not trying to sway anyone from their ideas. For example, an experienced mature woman has sex with a young virgin ...
Is that like the " The Good, the bad and the ugly" ?. One of my favorite Clint Eastwood movies.

Please tell me they showed that in the land down under.
09/28/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
ahhhh...who says so????
I did. Quite a few times while I've been a member.
09/28/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Is that like the " The Good, the bad and the ugly" ?. One of my favorite Clint Eastwood movies.

Please tell me they showed that in the land down under.
Yes it is. Plus many others. I like his new stuff too. More talking.
09/29/2015
Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
Eh I guess it could be either good or bad. I guess though from your perspective it does make sense as more of a learning experience.
11/05/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Honeymuffin33
Eh I guess it could be either good or bad. I guess though from your perspective it does make sense as more of a learning experience.
11/05/2015
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, I have had partners who provided bad sex......lol.
11/22/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, I have had partners who provided bad sex......lol.
Details?
11/23/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, I have had partners who provided bad sex......lol.
Care to elaborate? What was bad about it?
11/25/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I selected other, as you can see. This is my attempt at an explanation. Personally, I enjoy it when my partner can vocally express herself, i.e. get loud, and when we can both direct the action. She tells me where to move and vice versa.

During those times when that can't happen, the sex is neither good nor bad. I mean I'm still participating in the sexual activity. It sure beats either masturbating or being teased with the thought of sex but not being able to follow through.
11/25/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
For those curious about Bad Sex....Bad sex examples, although, I may be viewing the situation from the wrong perspective now. Maybe it is more of a learning curve deficit??

Nonetheless, examples: mediocre and unengaged foreplay where you just don't feel like the true focal point (the person is touching you yet has his eyes closed and is almost just going through the motions to get the job done), he's not reading your responses or reactions to the way he's touching you, they get lazy mid-sex and do this sordid hip thrust movement that does nothing to stimulate any part of the female anatomy, it's over in 2 hot minutes and he climaxes first--leaving you orgasmless. Just a couple of personal experiences from the past to make it feel "bad" lol.

Good sex, of course, any time none of the above was taking place. There was actually raw passion felt, all focus was on me at the right times, there isn't a single inch of me that doesn't get touched or explored, the mattress is usually knocked off kilter afterwards and needs readjusted (always a great sign), orgasms are fulfilled, and last but not least, sore stomach muscles and aching hips are a huge sign of a well played night!!
12/18/2015
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
For those curious about Bad Sex....Bad sex examples, although, I may be viewing the situation from the wrong perspective now. Maybe it is more of a learning curve deficit??

Nonetheless, examples: mediocre and unengaged foreplay where you just ...
I like the mattress had to be adjusted comment. That's an awesome night for sure.

I think sex can be good and bad depending on if each other focuses equal attention to fulfilling each other needs. One should never be left wanting for more or feeling like their desires weren't met.
12/19/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I like the mattress had to be adjusted comment. That's an awesome night for sure.

I think sex can be good and bad depending on if each other focuses equal attention to fulfilling each other needs. One should never be left wanting for more ...
Totally agreed Plus, if the mattress is being knocked off the box springs, it's safe to say there was equal met desires all around lol.
12/19/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Totally agreed Plus, if the mattress is being knocked off the box springs, it's safe to say there was equal met desires all around lol.
LOL. Fun times.
01/08/2016
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Is there such a thing as "Bad Sex"?

Is sex even good or bad? Is it just sex?
Sex can be bad in my opinion for various reasons.

To give an example...

The Secretary has a hard time going down on me because of my girth. She ends up having a hurting jaw and I end up getting nicked by teeth. Now if I am crazy turned on she can get the job done quickly but if I am not it can be a bit challenging.

HOWEVER... You have that experience and say well... that type of stimulation isn't for me and you move on to what you like.

The truth is if you dont have bad sex you cant tell what good sex is.
01/10/2016
konicaguy konicaguy
Sometimes it is just sex, while other times its super intense and crazy hot!
01/23/2016
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Bad could be when drank too much or too too pooped/tucked out to do anything much. Bad could be a bad experience. A one nighter that turned out to be a horror story. (no, don't bother asking, won't tell )

Bad could be didn't get ...
Sex can be bad if one of the participants just isn't into it, just going through the motions. Or if there is some reason you just can't make things work like trying to,get it on in a too small car or bed.
I had an experience where I couldn't orgasm due to a medication I was on. I could go on for hours and I just couldn't get over the edge, definitely bad!
05/22/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Sex can be bad if one of the participants just isn't into it, just going through the motions. Or if there is some reason you just can't make things work like trying to,get it on in a too small car or bed.
I had an experience where I ...
Agreed !
05/24/2016
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I believe sex is "Sex is neither Good nor Bad its just experience at getting Better."

For example, and I'm not trying to sway anyone from their ideas. For example, an experienced mature woman has sex with a young virgin ...
Unless the ex goes out of his way to be the most horrible experience you have had.

He only got "better" at giving bad sex.
05/25/2016
mfmtrios mfmtrios
There have been times when wife was upset and we tried to do it anyways, to see if it would help with her upset-ness. It didn't work out, and became annoying, so we just stopped.
09/20/2016
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Bad could be when drank too much or too too pooped/tucked out to do anything much. Bad could be a bad experience. A one nighter that turned out to be a horror story. (no, don't bother asking, won't tell )

Bad could be didn't get ...
And??? Share please.
Mar 23, 6:37 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
And??? Share please.
Which unpleasant experience would you like to hear. The younger sis ? And with you reciperate w one of yours?
Mar 31, 12:03 pm
MrClark MrClark
I feel like the times haven't been good, have been when I have too much on my mind or get distracted... when I lose focus on my partner or struggle to get hard, that only leads to disappointment for both. Will say in those cases having sex toys has helped with things, as sometimes seeing her enjoying one of her toys can be enough to get my mind off things and bring me back to focusing on her.
Apr 1, 7:30 pm
Khael3 Khael3
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Is there such a thing as "Bad Sex"?

Is sex even good or bad? Is it just sex?
Sex can be good for a good reason and for better understanding how to intercourse with it. But sometimes sex is bad due to the preparation and health consciousness.
Apr 6, 12:01 am
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