Can we kill this whole "I have a headache" excuse?

Can we kill this whole "I have a headache" excuse?

Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Ok so the guys out there know what I'm talking about...

You've plans - maybe even mutual plans for a romp in the bedroom, then...

Oh Honey - I have a headache!

C'mon do you really get a headache 3-4x a week? If so go get checked for a brain tumor - really - no one gets that many headaches!

I love my wife dearly - but she can manufacture a headache on command with the best of them.

Wouldn't it be better to just say - Sorry Honey, I don't feel like having sex tonight!? It would save a small fortune in over-the-counter pain medications that are taken as part of the ruse.

C'mon ladies - can you just be honest?
Mar 16, 12:58 pm
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Gypsie Angel Gypsie Angel
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok so the guys out there know what I'm talking about...

You've plans - maybe even mutual plans for a romp in the bedroom, then...

Oh Honey - I have a headache!

C'mon do you really get a headache 3-4x a week? If so ...
From one who comes from a long line of migraine tortured souls I can relate to the headache from no where, but my personal rule is unless it is so bad I can't move without vomiting or my head exploding, then the pumped up blood flow has got to help make it better, right?
Now, my mother on the other hand should take stock out in pain meds taken for faking headaches to get out of anything and everything she doesn't want to participate in....I don't know about bedroom activities, but it wouldn't surprise me to find it carries over there too.
Good luck out there guys!
Mar 17, 8:30 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gypsie Angel
From one who comes from a long line of migraine tortured souls I can relate to the headache from no where, but my personal rule is unless it is so bad I can't move without vomiting or my head exploding, then the pumped up blood flow has got to ...
Sorry about migraines - they are truly gruesome experiences. My wife on the other hand does not suffer migraines - just headaches of convenience
Mar 18, 11:57 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok so the guys out there know what I'm talking about...

You've plans - maybe even mutual plans for a romp in the bedroom, then...

Oh Honey - I have a headache!

C'mon do you really get a headache 3-4x a week? If so ...
Hmmm, how often do you have sex?

Probably it's too much for her, or too late, or...
As always, communication is the key

I've also found out that sex becomes more anticipated when he does ~that special thing~ that drives me crazy Find out what she likes most of all and make her addicted to it.
Mar 20, 10:16 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Hmmm, how often do you have sex?

Probably it's too much for her, or too late, or...
As always, communication is the key

I've also found out that sex becomes more anticipated when he does ~that special thing~ that drives ...
Maybe I didn't phrase the question correctly. We have sex a lot - on average 13-15x per month.

So when she's not in the mood, she doesn't need an excuse. It's a legacy excuse she's used for almost 30 years. I'd just prefer honesty than running to the Motrin bottle - as 'proof' of her headache.

How about, "Sorry Sweetie - not tonight, I need a break." or "Sorry, how about a rain check 'til tomorrow?"
Mar 20, 1:42 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Maybe I didn't phrase the question correctly. We have sex a lot - on average 13-15x per month.

So when she's not in the mood, she doesn't need an excuse. It's a legacy excuse she's used for almost 30 years. I'd just ...
I see nothing wrong with her "explanations"
Mar 22, 7:50 am
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