Condom Issue

the condom is deffenetly too big. maybe you can be incharged of getting the condoms. eden has some great ones. if standard is to small and magnum is too big they have an in between size. just dont tell him the condoms hes getting are too big for him. that maybe a sensitive topic.

I used to have an uncircumcised friend. In fact, he had phimosis, and had to wear condoms and they stayed on just fine, so I don't think that really weighs in on ones' ability to keep one on. I'd say it's more a sizing issue.

Keep trying new condoms. Every condom is made a little bit differently - especially between brands. We always found Lifestyles brand to be a lot smaller than Durex, so you might want to start there. Trojan usually runs a bit large. Just try some alternative brands (like Kimono too) and you'll find one that fits right sooner or later.

I think the best bet is the size. I've had two boyfriends that were uncircumsized and they had no problem with the condoms falling off. So i'd say try getting a smaller size. It might even be the lubrication that you're using. If the condom is just a tad big and you're using too much lube it could make it more apt to fall off. Maybe try getting a smaller size without as much lube.

Definitely the size, we've never had any trouble keeping condoms on. But I agree that you should experiment with different brands to find one that will stay on him, without making him feel small. But definitely be careful until you find the right size.

Thanks for all the advice! I'll have to pick up some different brands, just to be helpful

Thanks!
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The issue that I find is that the condom doesn't perfectly adhere to the foreskin. This means that, as the penis is thrust to and fro, the condom tends to bunch up and you end up with a glans no longer able to receive direct stimulation.

This, of course, doesn't help staying hard, and I can see where an otherwise perfectly-sized condom could slip off from this.

As an aside, I did try a "twisty" condom one time. It had a special "baggy head" on it that was supposed to help with stimulation. While it was like wearing a trash-bag, it was good in that the foreskin was free to move about without stressing the material.

Try different brands. It might not be a size issue but a general fit issue.