One of my new toys arrived today. I recently started to try different glass toys and this one is textured as opposed to being completely smooth. I know, I am lame and easily entertained. Sorry. The trouble is, I am chomping at the bit to test ride this lovely shiny thing and my man is already home from work. I ripped the box open and went to sneak away with my precious but before I could, he got up from his nap and saw. Now it doesn't feel right letting my play time encroach on our chill time. (he doesn't like to watch or help)I have to wait till he is gone at work tomorrow and it is driving me crazy because its so swirly and bumpy and shiny and new! At the same time there is something pleasing about having to wait even though it is already here. I know that delayed gratification can be used in foreplay and sex in many ways. Tell me anyone, How do you or your S.O.s/partners approach the use of delayed gratification during foreplay and sex? What do you do or what does He/She/They do that drives you/them absolutely stark raving mad in bed? What are your favorite and least favorite methods by which to do this to each other? Do you or your S.O. enjoy edging or forcing each other to edge? If so, what is your favorite or least favorite way to edge? How long have you been forced to edge and been denied? Have you or they ever been denied indefinitely?