Do you like older men

Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Do you think dating older men is gross or hot? And I mean only a few years older..for example I'm 21 and I like my men around 30!
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Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
You think of 30 as "older"...Well I suppose they are older than you. When people refer to "older men" I always think at least 40.
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Do you think dating older men is gross or hot? And I mean only a few years older..for example I'm 21 and I like my men around 30!
I don't think it's either, I think the power dynamic can be a little "yucky" and I question older men's motives when they desire a younger woman (who's likely more vulnerable) but if it's for the right reasons I don't have any issue with it. I don't date men, as I'm homoromantic and primarily sexually a lesbian, personally, though I have slept with a few (I'll occasionally have sex with glam rocker type men) and the oldest I've been with was 53, at the time I was 19. Frankly the sex itself was not that good, and a bit uncomfortable for me (he kept telling me to "suck that cali cock" as he was from california) but most of the men I've been with have been a bit older, as frankly I got started early.
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Answering for my wife who is 11 years younger than me! After 21 years it's still HOT!
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Well it depends on how much older... guys my age are just retarted (22) so I generally go for 26 min 29 max.. maybe 24 or 25 if they are decent. just went on a date with a 26 yr old WOOHOO I like him
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
It depends on how the guy takes care of himself.
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Contributor: mllebeauty mllebeauty
Older can be good but it depends on the guy.
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
if they're only a few years older than you (and 30) I don't consider that "dating older men".
I'm 27, my boyfriend is 48 - that's "dating older men" and it is, in fact, hawt. lol
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I've always been attracted to and dated older men. My guy now is actually the smallest age gap I've been with and he is 7 years older than me. The largest age gap was 25 years.
Contributor: PrettyPurple PrettyPurple
I also have a thing for older men but mainly those who are in their 40s. I'm not sure if it is just a "phase" or not since it's something that I've only noticed recently about myself. However, I am completely satisfied with being with my bf who is only 9 years older than I am.
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I am in between. I used to think it was kind of I guess not right till I met an older man that I just adore and if things weren't complicated could see myself dating him.
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i love older men. but i also believe that "age difference" does excist
Contributor: go4me77 go4me77
My husband is older than me and I'm glad I chose him. (I didn't base it purely on age, but other factors). Our age has a gap, but we don't mind. I am happier than I have ever been in my life and he's happy to have found a woman such as myself. Age is a number that you can't turn back--we all get older that's just the fact of life. No use in dwelling on how much "older" someone is from you, when you should just enjoy being with the person for other reasons.
Contributor: alayamae alayamae
as long as there isn't more than a 20-25 year gap.
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
Normally, no. But I have this HUGE crush on Adam Baldwin (John Casey on Chuck, I think my crush is ultimately on the fictional character.). I don't care if he's almost the same age as my mother. He doesn't look it (he'll be 50 this month). He was also Animal Mother in Full Metal Jacket and was Jayne on Firefly if you're curious.
I want him.
Except he's married and has kids and all. And is 22 years older than me. And is famous and will never meet me.
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Not really. I feel like a giant age difference might be a problem and I'm just not really attracted to older people.
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
My husband is 5 years older than me!
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I"m totally into older men. I've always had a Daddy complex though.
Contributor: AU AU
I don't really like the extreme of "gross", though I am more a negative here. I prefer somewhat younger men. My partner is about two years my junior and I could go a few more years younger if the man had some life experience and some other things going for him. I think I tend to be intimidated by men more than 5 years older than me. But if I were open to new relationships, I don't think I could stop myself from falling in love with someone because of age if we got along, seemed like a good match. I don't really feel age always determines where we are in life and how good we are doing physically.
Contributor: KikiChrome KikiChrome
I've always been attracted to older men - it's just my thing. I was never into guys my own age, and the one time I dated someone who was two years younger than me I felt like I was his mother!

Having said that, sometimes you run into a difference of social values with people who are significantly older (like, he might think modern fashions are "disgusting" or that women aren't meant to work after they get married). It definitely depends on the individual. I'm very open-minded and I like people who are the same.

But yes, as far as sexy goes... haawwwttttt!!!
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
I think the age that you are makes a big difference in how much of an age gap is a big deal. For instance, a 15 year old dating a 30 year old (15 yrs difference) would be super creepy, but a 40 year old dating someone 55 isn't uncommon.

I'm in my late 20s and usually find myself interested in men around their mid 30s.
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm attracted to older men because they're usually more mature than guys my age (yes, even in my mid-thirties). My marriage taught me that wisdom and experience do NOT come with age (he was ten years older and acted twelve-years-old most of the time), but it still hasn't deterred me from older men - I'm just more careful in determining their mental maturity.

I've been turned off to guys my age (and younger) because they don't have their acts together and aren't serious about any sort of relationships beyond 'friends with benefits'. Not to mention those that are interested in serious relationships are either already taken or want children.

My Master is twelve years older than me (I'm 33 and he's 45), but we dove-tail each other perfectly in the fact that he has his life together and is now able to devote himself to a relationship, and I'm getting my life together which he finds exciting. And we both don't want children (which is a MAJOR issue whether people admit it or not). He also still has a high drive to keep up with mine. And my intellectual pursuits are on par with his, as we both are focusing on quality of life instead of just working (him) and just surviving (me).

Now, to get rid of the 5,000 miles of distance ...
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I LOVE older men. Guys around my age or younger just don't do anything for me. They have to be very mature and I don't find guys my age have matured enough.
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I prefer my age group, but I've been older than my bfs by 6 months or less, it seems.. so not much experience there!
Contributor: Tart Tart
The experience, the salt n' pepper hair, the hottness!
Contributor: Devz Devz
I prefer around my age
Contributor: ChickRocking ChickRocking
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Do you think dating older men is gross or hot? And I mean only a few years older..for example I'm 21 and I like my men around 30!
I do find older men sexy. With age comes wisdom and a lot more experience. I am actually married to someone a few months younger than me but that does not change how I feel in regards to older men.
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
i do find a lot of older guys hot
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Originally posted by Crystal1
I think the age that you are makes a big difference in how much of an age gap is a big deal. For instance, a 15 year old dating a 30 year old (15 yrs difference) would be super creepy, but a 40 year old dating someone 55 isn't ... more
I agree with this. My man is 13 years old (I'm 24, he's 37). When we start the "I was in K5 when you were graduating high school" age comparisons, it gets weird. But where we are now--similar life goals, philosophy, maturity level--it works and I love it. Guys in their 30s have long been super sexy to me (maybe that'll change when I hit 30?). When it comes to celebrities, I usually find guys in their 40s and 50s hot (Chris Eccleston, anyone?).