Do you like the TV on while you're having sex?

Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
My boyfriend likes to have it on for the light. I find the TV to be distracting and would much rather just a candle.
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Yes
No
El-Jaro , Antipova , Stinkytofu10 , Moein , Incendiaire , CoffeeCup , DreamWolf , Dnice , meitman , Destri , GONE! , married with children , aliceinthehole , potstickers , Love Obsessed , Rossie , Undead , FHeemz , Cora Jane , Lummox
20  (74%)
Doesn't matter to me
EastCoast36 , Azule , Badass , fredacarl , jay28
5  (19%)
Other
PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Falsepast
2  (7%)
Total votes: 27
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03/09/2012
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Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I am sort of like him, because I do like to have some light. If it's the TV muted or the closet with the door mostly shut, it doesn't matter. I just prefer to not be in total darkness. Candles are nice, but we honestly never use them. Once or twice a month we will watch porn together, so the TV is understandably on for that.
03/09/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
It used to not bother me, but one time i was watching House and a character was hallucinating, seeing bugs...yeah, ruined the mood.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
With my current mate, we never do that. But with one of my ex's he would leave it on sometimes.. never bothered me.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
No. I'm not very picky about very many things... but if you want a light, turn on a light (or a candle or lamp, like you say). If you want to watch a tv show, go ahead and watch a tv show, but I'll be in the other room having orgasms. I think having a tv on when you should be focusing your attention on your partner is extremely rude. I would never do it to a partner of mine, and I would hope they would extend the same courtesy to me. (And if they don't, hey, I'll just find a room without a tv).

I guess I should frame this... I also shut my laptop immediately when someone enters a room, I'll turn off the radio if I'm not driving alone, and I usually leave the room to send texts. I just ... don't want to make people feel like they're less important than electronics, I guess.
03/09/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by dbm6907
My boyfriend likes to have it on for the light. I find the TV to be distracting and would much rather just a candle.
Doesn't matter to me
03/09/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Only music, no TV.
03/09/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Only if listening to music on the TV.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Moein Moein
I must focus on the actions and enjoy it. TV will prevents that actualy with no doubt.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
TV is not my idea of romance.
03/09/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I don't like tv in general! (There are very "enriching" shows out there of course, so I don't mean all the tv shows too...) If anything should be on it is music, or whatever else, but I tend to focus on whatever is on very often, which often makes me bury myself into what I am hearing, like when it is a song I love or enjoy, or something in a movie or show catching my interest - I never liked it, and if it's up to me I choose not to have tv on!
03/09/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
I really don't, I find it very distracting. I like music on.
03/10/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
I've done it but it was distracting.
03/10/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we dont like to have it on, unless we are watching some porn.
03/12/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by dbm6907
My boyfriend likes to have it on for the light. I find the TV to be distracting and would much rather just a candle.
i dont' have a TV, but at my boyfriend's (x boyfriend's!) house, if the TV was on and we wanted to fuck, i'd be turning that shit off most likely before it was all over. it's annoying to me, the television.

unless we were watching a hot porn.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
No I'd rather have other lighting the TV would distract me.
07/01/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
I'd rather it be off.
07/01/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
Same situation here! My boyfriend keeps turning on the tv or laptop to get more light. I find it distracting, I'm trying to teach him to light candles instead.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Im a virgin but I imagine it would bother me if it were on
07/02/2012