Do you like to be in charge during sex?

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Do you like to be in charge during sex?

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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
During sex do you like to be in control of the situation or do you like to be the follower?
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In control
paralax , Jenniae09 , Jesyra , usmcwife99 , PurpleBerry , jakjak , Yoda , Apinkjellybean04 , Sir , BigDaddy10 , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , Skelis , Sera , tits only , ReadyAllTheTime , DeliciousSurprise , Onanist , married with children , joja , Lummox , tkdchick90 , Lolla Munz , yes yes yes , dhig
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The follower
LittleBoPeep , JPito , Lavender*Moon , Persephone Nightmare , RadRach , Yoda , Madeira , Alt , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , Shellz31 , Sammi , Sera , tits only , ReadyAllTheTime , DeliciousSurprise , mrs.mckrakn , Onanist , Trashley , Joie de Cherresse , wetone123 , joja , Lithaewyn , IrishLassie , Fanny , Lummox , tigerkate , potstickers , ZenaidaMacroura , TameTemptress , JessCee
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Total votes: 54 (45 voters)
Poll is closed
09/02/2010
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Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to be in control of the situation or do you like to be the follower?
depends really. im a switch.
09/09/2010
Contributor: Jenniae09 Jenniae09
I like to be in control, but so does he. So we tend to fight for power and that just leads to a bigger drive.
09/09/2010
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
I'm very dominate, luckily my husband is submissive ^_^
09/09/2010
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
I love being submissive. Unfortunatly, my husband isn't one for taking the wheel, so to speak. So, I tend to be the one to take the lead...which for me gets old A LOT!
09/09/2010
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
I like it both ways.
09/12/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I like to be the follower
09/20/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I'll go with both. It depends on the mood.
09/24/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
I like it both ways but my favorite is him being in control.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Typically, the follower, but not always.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to be in control of the situation or do you like to be the follower?
I like to switch back and forth, usually. Sometimes I'm a follower, and completely trust whatever he does either way.
10/07/2010
Contributor: tits only tits only
Its depends on how I feel.
10/20/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
prefere for my hub to be the dominante one
10/24/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I like both
10/25/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Yes! I broke the tie haha I love being the sub :]
10/25/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love it when he tells me what to do. But I occasionally turn the roles and get a bit dominate at times too.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I'm very submissive but recently I've been trying my best to top him more often, both to try out new positions and styles and to pleasure him even more. I'm learning to enjoy it but a year ago I would have laughed at the idea of me getting off as a top. It just wasn't appealing to me at all.
03/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I am totally a sub, so I really enjoy following. Luckily for me, my husband enjoys being in change .
03/20/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I am more about following, but I think part of that is still shyness to express my needs. I've gotten better at that though but I still prefer to follow.

I find myself often saying "How do you want me?"
03/24/2011
Contributor: Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
like it when she takes control
09/07/2011