does fear of getting caught turn you on?

does fear of getting caught turn you on?

paralax paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but when there is no threat, its not as fun for me, am i weird? i enjoy it still. just not as much. anyone else like that?
09/11/2010
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but ...
I've never really enjoyed sneaking around or doing the 'forbidden' to be honest. Even when I was 'allowed' to cheat (his way of making the playing field even) I didn't because I can't keep that to myself, I like sharing the experience too much. Couldn't keep the fact that I was with my lifepartner from people...it just is better when I can share WHY I am so happy.
09/11/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
Actually, I would say the opposite happens for me. The fear of getting caught makes me less aroused and I dont have as much fun :-(
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
09/11/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Yeah, definitely it turns me on. When we have guests staying overnight, it's always fun to have sex then, because it's sometimes more pleasureable than normal times, because of that fear of being caught.
09/11/2010
buzzvibe buzzvibe
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Originally posted by Waterfall
Actually, I would say the opposite happens for me. The fear of getting caught makes me less aroused and I dont have as much fun :-(
However, some of my partners have liked this a lot and I have never understood it lol.
Yeah, me too.
09/11/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a teen this was a common issue - then once we had kids and the issue resurfaced. I can't say that I find it a turn-on but it has an ever present concern. With the kids now in college it's a relief not to have to be concerned.
09/11/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but ...
Nope, turns me off
09/13/2010
bleedingthoughtsofyou bleedingthoughtsofyou
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
it seems when im not suppose to be with someone it is always better then when its ok. like sneaking around with a friend you dont want everyone to know kind of thing. or doing it in public. or with someone in the next room. that kind of stuff. but ...
yes yes yes. i love that feeling
09/14/2010
NightNight NightNight
It makes me nervous and feels like a distraction. I like being in public or watched I just don't want to make people upset!!
09/14/2010
twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
No, this makes things completely worse, but I have a huge anxiety issue which makes sense as to why it makes it worse, lol.
09/14/2010
moonch1ld moonch1ld
I enjoy the risk of being caught in public very much. Also having sex in say the living room while the roommate is in the bedroom. Very fun!
12/14/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
Yes - it always heightens the excitement!
12/14/2010
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