Just asking (:
Does single fathers turn you on?
09/18/2010
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GOOD fathers turn me on in general, but SINGLE good fathers ftw because they're available. Not that I want to become a step mama anytime soon, but just for play. I find a nurturing instinct in a guy very attractive.
09/18/2010
It's not that they would turn me off, it's just never been "a thing" of mine.
09/18/2010
Ditto Alicia.
09/18/2010
Never really thought about if this would turn me on or not... Maybe I will pay more attention
09/19/2010
A good father as the first poster said.
09/19/2010
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LOL I need the other choice. As has been said previously a GOOD single father can be a turn on but the fact that he has fathered kids does nothing for me in terms of turn on.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Just asking (:
09/19/2010
I'm not sure how to vote, given the choices.
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their character. And having good character and shouldering responsibility is DEFINITELY sexy. But, on the other hand, I never found myself drawn to a specific man just because he was a father.
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their character. And having good character and shouldering responsibility is DEFINITELY sexy. But, on the other hand, I never found myself drawn to a specific man just because he was a father.
09/19/2010
A good father in general. Especially a single father who can and have all the opportunity to run off and be a deadbeat. I give props to fathers who spend more time with their children because the mothers don't bother. Or, A man who steps in as daddy because the father ran off. I'm fond any of these characteristics to be sexy and turn me on. I looooove to see a daddy pushing a baby carriage, it makes me go awe every i see it!
09/19/2010
No. They usually want me as a mistress so they won't have to invest any emotional attachment to me. Apparently children suck all that out.
And 'no' for other reasons - things get too complicated when their children are involved because I don't want to end up being a 'mother figure' or a target for the kids' hate about their parents' break up. Seeing a guy with their kids is an automatic 'off limits and turn off' for me, because I know his attention will always be elsewhere. I don't care that his virility is proven - I'm not in the market for potential offspring.
Mulder never understood why I never wanted to meet his kids. All for the reasons I outlined above.
And 'no' for other reasons - things get too complicated when their children are involved because I don't want to end up being a 'mother figure' or a target for the kids' hate about their parents' break up. Seeing a guy with their kids is an automatic 'off limits and turn off' for me, because I know his attention will always be elsewhere. I don't care that his virility is proven - I'm not in the market for potential offspring.
Mulder never understood why I never wanted to meet his kids. All for the reasons I outlined above.
09/19/2010
No, because children are a turn off for me. I don't want children and I don't want to inherit someone else's.
09/19/2010
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Yes thats how I feel I find the nurturing instinct very sexy! (:
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
GOOD fathers turn me on in general, but SINGLE good fathers ftw because they're available. Not that I want to become a step mama anytime soon, but just for play. I find a nurturing instinct in a guy very attractive.
09/19/2010
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haha I know what you mean!
Originally posted by
Lady Venus
A good father in general. Especially a single father who can and have all the opportunity to run off and be a deadbeat. I give props to fathers who spend more time with their children because the mothers don't bother. Or, A man who steps in as
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A good father in general. Especially a single father who can and have all the opportunity to run off and be a deadbeat. I give props to fathers who spend more time with their children because the mothers don't bother. Or, A man who steps in as daddy because the father ran off. I'm fond any of these characteristics to be sexy and turn me on. I looooove to see a daddy pushing a baby carriage, it makes me go awe every i see it!
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09/19/2010
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I forgot about the other choice, haha sorry!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
LOL I need the other choice. As has been said previously a GOOD single father can be a turn on but the fact that he has fathered kids does nothing for me in terms of turn on.
09/19/2010
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Same. Good>Single
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
GOOD fathers turn me on in general, but SINGLE good fathers ftw because they're available. Not that I want to become a step mama anytime soon, but just for play. I find a nurturing instinct in a guy very attractive.
09/19/2010
Yes I have all ways found single father sexy. And my husband was no exception.
09/20/2010
I voted no because I'm not turned on by the fact that a dude is a single father. Now I might be turned on by a guy who happens to be a single father, but since I don't want to raise any kids, I doubt I'd try a relationship with him. Now, a one night stand or FWB situation might be nice. ;-)
09/20/2010
This one doesn't feel like it applies to me, as far as being "turned on" - but I will happily relate that a guy who is a Good Dad gains my respect. I do feel a rush of warmth and appreciation when I see a father being great with his kids. I don't just mean the biological Dads, either - I mean Dads of all kinds.
Do I think Single Dads deserve more praise than Single Moms? Nope. They're just not as common - but they're walking the same path as the moms are.
Do I think Single Dads deserve more praise than Single Moms? Nope. They're just not as common - but they're walking the same path as the moms are.
09/20/2010
I chose yes, because while just being a single dad isn't in itself a turn on. I've been extremely attracted to men who were single dads because of characteristics I don't feel they would have had if they weren't single dads.
09/20/2010
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dido
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
GOOD fathers turn me on in general, but SINGLE good fathers ftw because they're available. Not that I want to become a step mama anytime soon, but just for play. I find a nurturing instinct in a guy very attractive.
10/17/2010
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Same!
Originally posted by
Selective Sensualist
I'm not sure how to vote, given the choices.
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their ... more
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their ... more
I'm not sure how to vote, given the choices.
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their character. And having good character and shouldering responsibility is DEFINITELY sexy. But, on the other hand, I never found myself drawn to a specific man just because he was a father. less
On one hand, I appreciate men who are good fathers and I love to watch them interacting with their children in a loving, patient, and nurturing way. Good parenting speaks volumes about their character. And having good character and shouldering responsibility is DEFINITELY sexy. But, on the other hand, I never found myself drawn to a specific man just because he was a father. less
I'm not really wanting to be Back-Up Mommy also.
But, if you've seen What Happens in Vegas... when Ashton Kutcher's character was being so nuturing and loving towards his niece... now that is a hot. Seeing his nuturing, soft side. I love that. <3
Makes me wanna make babies with them, LOL.
10/17/2010
I've been with a single father, and never thought twice about it. I was attracted to him as a PERSON, and that had nothing to do with whether or not he was a father or held any other responsibilities. It didn't do anything for me, or detract anything from our fling. He's just a guy like everyone else. No more or less special.
10/17/2010
It all depends on the person... not whether they are single dads or not.
03/12/2011
Just cause they are a single father, doesn't turn me on. But I wouldn't be turned off either if a single father had the qualities I go for.
03/13/2011
No more or less than non-single fathers!
(I jest, I jest)
(I jest, I jest)
03/18/2011
Ehhhhh...
03/18/2011
no.
08/07/2012
Just think, if you get married you'll be supporting someone else's kids. A big NO from me. Take it from someone who married a father (and I keep my money in a separate account so I don't have to support them, but it still affects us.)
08/08/2012
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