Everyone should be allowed to masturbate.
Does your partner mind if you masturabate in bed next to them when they're not in the mood?
11/24/2011
We don't mind. Sometimes the other person gets into it or is too tires. Either way it is great to look at!!
11/24/2011
I encourage it. If I'm not in the mood I much rather he still get off than lay there all pent-up. He feels the same way.
11/24/2011
It happens a lot in our bed. There are three of us. Sometimes you're next to people having sex if you're not in the mood. No big deal. As long as everyone's happy.
11/24/2011
My wife doesn't mind, but I always wait until she's asleep so there's no reason for her to mind anyway. She has said that she'd be a little offended if I jacked off to porn while in bed next to her, but that would be so awkward that I wouldn't want to do it anyway.
11/25/2011
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Let me restate after the other night... I dont mind at all unless it shakes my bed like an earthquake while he does it and it wakes me from a sound sleep I can finger my pussy without it shaking the entire bed. Wtf boys? Cant you stroke those big hard cocks a little easy? Jeesh!!!
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
11/26/2011
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thankfully he doesnt. Sometime it even gets him in the mood.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
12/17/2012
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He's never in the mood and wants me to be happy, so he's cool with it.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
12/17/2012
I don't think she minds.
12/17/2012
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Exactly, Phil has no problem at all with me pleasuring myself, he loves it when I snuggle up to him and play with myself. More often than not it inspires him to lend a hand, but even if he is that tired that he doesn't get physically involved, he will give me vocal encouragement and suggest things I should do!!
Originally posted by
Beaners
My boyfriend is ALWAYS up for some kind of play, lol! When I'm not in the mood I don't mind if he gets off in bed next to me no think there's only been a handful of times this has happened though. And usually I'll pitch in a helping hand.
12/17/2012
My partner has never not been in the mood when I am.
12/17/2012
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That problem has not occured for us in over 3 decades together. If I am really " not in the mood"....which maybe has happened five times (?), I can still spead my legs or turn over for a few minutes and let him pleasure himself inside me, with very little effort. Why do less for a loved one? Even preoccupied, he can spare a finger to please me as well! Never had the need to masturbate, if we were under the same roof! It's just part of our implied marriage contract and loving committment to each other!
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
12/17/2012
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I have to get up at 5 am every workday morning. So does he. However, I don't care the hour..I would far rather he penetrate me, and bond that way, rather then even think of wasting a hard on by masurbating. Otherwise, why share our bed all night???!!!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I've done this - but she's asleep and doesn't know it. She has to get up so early that it just wouldn't be good to wake her up.
12/17/2012
We're both fine with it, sometimes it works out better that way
12/20/2012
We havent discussed it but i kno it bothers her
12/20/2012
Haven't discussed it but I'm sure it would Change his mood lol.
12/20/2012
What did Madonna say? "Poor is the man, whose pleasure depends, on the permission, of another." Sounds about right.
But we've never discussed it and the few times I've started touching myself when she's been in the bed with me, she's reached over and taken the situation in hand.
She gets up before me, so usually if we don't have sex, I'll masturbate after she leaves.
But we've never discussed it and the few times I've started touching myself when she's been in the bed with me, she's reached over and taken the situation in hand.
She gets up before me, so usually if we don't have sex, I'll masturbate after she leaves.
12/30/2012
He would be so excite if I started in by myself that he would explode!
12/31/2012
Either one of us can start...but the other will always help finish the job.
12/31/2012
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i don't really understand getting jealous or upset about that.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
12/31/2012
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My partner doesn't mind at all! He loves watching me play with myself. He gets to see exactly what I do to cum so he can try it out later.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
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01/03/2013
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My partner doesn't mind
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
I know some people would get upset/jealous if their partner decided to "take care of business" when they weren't in the mood. But how does your partner feel if you do that in bed next to them?
01/03/2013
My partner doesn't mind
01/03/2013
I don't have a lover
01/03/2013
I usually only do this if my partner is asleep.
01/03/2013
I've done it maybe once...but he was nice and DID lend his finger! :
01/03/2013
I am not currently partnered up, but no one has ever minded.
01/03/2013
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I THINK I understand.
Originally posted by
heather-mooney
i don't really understand getting jealous or upset about that.
If I was with someone who was so impatient that they couldn't wait a reasonably short time to have sex with me, and instead, spent all their sexual energy masturbating, so that our sex life was negatively impacted, I'd get pissed off.
I used to hook up with a friend of mine and many times, I'd suggest sex and he'd tell me he'd already jacked off a couple times that day. Which really sucked. We didn't sleep together, but if we had, I'd have wanted him to share his sexual energy with ME rather than selfishly pleasing himself because he couldn't wait a few hours.
01/04/2013
He's only allowed to if I get to watch! Mmmm
01/07/2013
It never came up before.
01/07/2013