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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Mrs. Bignuf loves kissing, but NEVER "first thing in the morning" if we just woke up (morning breath). Mrs. Bignuf loves to have me play with her clit prior to any other sexual activity...except in the morning (she say's it is just annoying and that part is simply "not awake yet" (her words)).

She really enjoys not wasting that wonderful morning "hard on" I may have, but SHE prefers I just come over to her side of the bed and "not waste time"...be it vaginal or anal (my choice), she simply wants me to position her as I wish (she says she does not care) and go for it.

She DOES really enjoy that morning sex, but it is TOTALLY different then any other time, in that SHE does not want ANY kissing, foreplay, workup or anything. Just "penetration and action" (again, HER words).

Once again, are we really ODD in this, or is this more typical of the "early morning" routine for others???

We have been married 32 years now and honestly, while we both had other lovers prior to being married, neither of us EVER lived with anyone else...so we never, ever spent mornings with anyone else. Our close friends, who we discuss matter of all kinds of things sexual and intimate, think we are oddballs in this one. The woman all still want kissing and cuddling in the morning before sex (they get up and brush teeth, comb hair, etc, THEN come back to bed. We do too SOMETIMES, but not always).

SO..anyone else like us on this, or are we just the odd one's out..again?
01/15/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
For obvious reasons a lot of lip-kissing in the morning doesn't work well. My wife never surprises me - but I do her occasionally. When we do, we don't tale the time to brush our teeth - but there is a fair amount of body kisses as part of the foreplay.

Foreplay can be long or short - it depends on how much 'enticing' she needs to get in the mood. We had a great session this morning - because I primed her for it last night, things went pretty smoothly - just a fabulous way to start the day!
01/15/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Mrs. Bignuf loves kissing, but NEVER "first thing in the morning" if we just woke up (morning breath). Mrs. Bignuf loves to have me play with her clit prior to any other sexual activity...except in the morning (she say's it is just ... more
I normally wake up in the morning really horny Being a girl, I don't have the "hard on" you have to show it However, I love just being fucked in the morning. I don't really like kissing with the morning breath. Oral would be even more awkward with all the bacteria in the mouth.
So, I don't think you are odd I enjoy the same thing
01/15/2012
Contributor: Moein Moein
Well, we used to have it at after wake up but not in immediate, we need to get up eat brakefast, drink tea, then we can start foreplay. Because after wake up I need to go to bath room, so it is not a good idea to do it before that. I just deal with intimate as a (perfect work to be done).
01/15/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Mrs. Bignuf loves kissing, but NEVER "first thing in the morning" if we just woke up (morning breath). Mrs. Bignuf loves to have me play with her clit prior to any other sexual activity...except in the morning (she say's it is just ... more
no i agree i like morning sex but i agree the only kinda foreplay i want in the a.m is maybe me giving alil blow job otherwise than that its lazy,right to the point sex all the way
01/16/2012
Contributor: EnChAnTiNg EnChAnTiNg
I would say no foreplay and just get right to it.
01/16/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
If he or I were too tired the night before, I typically wake up already ready to go. This is especially true if I initiated last night and he was the one who was tired. I know most women need some foreplay, but it's almost like just being in bed together, is enough. It is different if I go to sleep without the expectation of morning sex. Then I need time to wake up and get into it. It can still happen, but I need more attention. So I guess my answer is, it varies.
01/16/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
It totally depends on my mood at the time. Some mornings I have woken up and just been ready lets get to it, while other times i want a bit of foreplay before getting really to the hardcore stuff. But it varies either way.
01/16/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
That is typical for us. We don't kiss before brushing (sometimes we'll hop out of bed just to brush then hop back in), and sometimes there is foreplay and caressing, but typically we just go at it.
01/16/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Mrs. Bignuf loves kissing, but NEVER "first thing in the morning" if we just woke up (morning breath). Mrs. Bignuf loves to have me play with her clit prior to any other sexual activity...except in the morning (she say's it is just ... more
i like waking my wife up by eating her out. having an orgasm first thing in the morning is a great way to start the day.
01/20/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm up hours before he is so there's no chance for hanky panky for us in the mornings.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
I can see where her preference for not making with foreplay comes.
Morning sex for me, and for my lady is best handled immediately because it is the spontaneity of it that makes it great.
I don't think I have ever known couples to run off to the restroom to brush their teeth or prim their hair before hand. The only reason to run off before, is if you really got to pee.
01/22/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
I can see the not kissing in the morning. I love morning sex though. Especially if I am woken up, gently of course, to have sex.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I always have to go and pee first before early morning sex. And if I'm there anyway, I may as well clean my teeth and not have that icky 'early morning mouth'.

I'd love to be spontaneous enough to just slowly wake up as he's starting, but when Nature calls, you don't really have the option to let it go to voice mail.
01/22/2012
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Mrs. Bignuf loves kissing, but NEVER "first thing in the morning" if we just woke up (morning breath). Mrs. Bignuf loves to have me play with her clit prior to any other sexual activity...except in the morning (she say's it is just ... more
my man is super easy to get going. this morning I was awake and he was asleep and I really wanted him. so I started to suck on his fingers and he woke right up and grabbed me and kissed me and well yeah you can guess the rest..
01/22/2012
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
Now that I think about it, I used to have need of a morning piss almost every morning, but it doesn't seem so as often now. Is that just a getting old thing? I am only 32 but still.
Another strange thing....does sleep fucking count?
There have been a few times when my fiancee has sworn up and down that we had sex the night before, but I wouldn't remember it. She said I wold just wake up...around 4 in the morning and lay into her...not roughly, but so as not to be denied. She says I am open-eyed and slightly coherent.
I would never remember it....but the evidence is always there, either she is right, or i am still having wet dreams.
01/23/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
If we do it first thing in the morning, usually just right into it, maybe a little finger play to warm her up, but that's it.
01/23/2012