For those couples whose lady half is on the pill, do you cum inside of her or pull out for extra protection or some other method? Is this a joint decision or is one partner more worried?
For couples on the pill: Do you cum inside or pull out?
01/11/2011
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I've been on the pill for years. My ex husband always came inside me and so does my current boyfriend now. I've never been pregnant and we're both STI free, so I'm fine with it and actually prefer it. I always feel more satisfied mentally and closer to my partner that way.
01/11/2011
We use condoms, but mostly for the added benefit of easy cleanup.
01/11/2011
My boyfriend & I use condoms even though I'm on the pill. I guess both of us are a bit scared about what could happen.
01/11/2011
There is no ovulation time when you're on the pill. Other than abstinence or sterilization, its the only reliable method in my opinion.
01/11/2011
My husband had a vas a few years ago but before that I was on the pill. Unless I missed a dose he would cum inside of me.
01/11/2011
I picked other. It's about half and half for us. Mostly because I have yet to find a birth control that works with my body, so we generally use condoms no matter what, especially now that we are done have kids. But before it was sort of a toss up.
01/11/2011
I'm answering for my significant other. He cums inside of me.
01/11/2011
Other-we use condoms. I'm saving that for marriage.
01/12/2011
I have an IUD. It depends, sometimes he does & sometimes he doesn't. Depends on the mood & what type of sex we're engaging in.
01/12/2011
We usually do unless she's too sore (usually just a handjob then), forgot to take her pill or is on antibiotics and then we usually don't do anything anyway
01/12/2011
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That about sums it up!
Originally posted by
Jul!a
We use condoms, but mostly for the added benefit of easy cleanup.
Also we're wary of that .001% chance.
01/12/2011
Before I had my tubes tied I was on some form of hormonal birth control and my husband never pulled out. We wound up with 4 kids despite the birth control.
01/12/2011
My partner always pulls out before he comes. We can never be too sure and neither of us wants kids.
01/12/2011
After my BF and I got tested and made sure we were both clean, the first time we had unprotected sex, he pulled out. I guess he was just used to pulling out. But I'm on the pill and have pretty much always had the people I'm blood-bonded cum inside me; never had pregnancy.
01/12/2011
He pulls out even though I'm on the pill and am a very good user. We just can't afford a pregnancy while we are in college. I would like him to cum in me but he wont and in the end it makes me worry less!
01/12/2011
I always used condoms when single but for the last 6 years i've been in a commited relationship and we cum inside. Except of course if you miss a pill or are on an antibiotic. Even then tho i admit we just pull and pray. Never had a pregnancy scare.
01/12/2011
I am not on the pill but there are some times (maybe once a year) that my husband will come inside me and then i use the plan B pill. But those times we know that is going to happen because we plan to do it that way. every other time we use condoms just because we don't want children.
01/13/2011
I cum inside or my partner since we already have one child we dont need another one lol. but we both understad the risks of what we are doing
01/13/2011
On the pill and he cums inside. We are at the point that we want to wait a bit for kids, but if one comes along now then we would be ok with that. It just wouldn't be the preferred time.
01/13/2011
I'm on the pill. DH doesn't pull out.
01/13/2011
I have an IUD and I really want him to cum inside me, it just makes me feel closer. It is rare that he doesn't finish in my pussy, butt or mouth.
I was thrilled when I got my IUD, as we used condoms and didn't feel the sensation of his cum. Hormonal bc created havoc for me.
I was thrilled when I got my IUD, as we used condoms and didn't feel the sensation of his cum. Hormonal bc created havoc for me.
01/13/2011
I was nervous the first few times we tested bc without a condom for backup but we've been doing it 3 years now without issue.
01/13/2011
I have an IUD...but where he cums kind of depends on the day. I guess you could said we like variety.
01/13/2011
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We're a little wary, but we're ok if it happens. I'm the only one he's ever ejaculated inside of because I'm the only one he's ever been ok with having a kid with, so I figure if it happens, it happens, lol
Originally posted by
potstickers
That about sums it up!
Also we're wary of that .001% chance.
Also we're wary of that .001% chance.
01/13/2011
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I usually do whatever she wants me to do, but I prefer to be able to come inside.
Originally posted by
moonch1ld
For those couples whose lady half is on the pill, do you cum inside of her or pull out for extra protection or some other method? Is this a joint decision or is one partner more worried?
01/13/2011
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If I am sure I have taken my pill absolutely on time I will have full on unprotected sex with my life partner (my husband is fixed). If I have been late and it is close to my normal ovulation I will either not have PIV sex or ask him to use a condom. Just as a precaution. My periods are as regular as clock work so it's not as big a worry for me as I would know immediately if I got pregnant.
Originally posted by
moonch1ld
For those couples whose lady half is on the pill, do you cum inside of her or pull out for extra protection or some other method? Is this a joint decision or is one partner more worried?
01/13/2011
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I've never thought of that before. That's certainly an interesting way to save something without having to abstain.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
Other-we use condoms. I'm saving that for marriage.
01/13/2011
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My hubby & I did that! =)
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
Other-we use condoms. I'm saving that for marriage.
01/13/2011
I'm on the pill and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He almost always cums inside of me. We're both clean and have a trusting relationship, so we feel no need to use further protection.
To be honest, I don't really understand the point of pulling out when on the pill solely for the purpose of avoiding the slight chance of pregnancy. Pre-cum has more than enough sperm in it to cause pregnancy, so pulling out isn't exactly the most effective method.
To be honest, I don't really understand the point of pulling out when on the pill solely for the purpose of avoiding the slight chance of pregnancy. Pre-cum has more than enough sperm in it to cause pregnancy, so pulling out isn't exactly the most effective method.
01/16/2011