For couples on the pill: Do you cum inside or pull out?

Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
how common is pregnancy if someone is on the pill and uses condoms?
01/18/2011
Contributor: cherryblossom cherryblossom
Even though I'm on the pill, we usually use condoms so I don't have to wash the sheets and/or towels daily...
01/23/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
He cums inside me. We both enjoy the feeling of intimacy that it gives us.
01/23/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
95% of the time, he comes inside of me. I like it better that way.

But lately, we're kinda tired of the clean-up afterward, so we're trying pulling out more.
I am allergic to latex, so condoms and I don't get along very well [as I'm in a committed relationship, and STD-free, that's fine for me].
And I also have polycystic ovarian syndrome, where I've been told based on my hormonal levels and patterns, it'd be pretty damn difficult to get pregnant unless I am being chemically or surgically assisted. So that makes me worry a lot less.

And on NuvaRing, there's not as much chance of me messing up, forgetting a pill, getting an upset stomach and compromising the pill digestion/metabolism, etc. So that also helps quell my mind.


...even with all that, I still get pregnancy-paranoid every two/three months. Just because.
01/23/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Well back when we were first married, and I was on the pill, my husband would pull out. He only would cum inside after I was done with my period. We hate condoms, so we never used them even when we were dating. However, I did get pregnant and have a miscarriage all while on the pill. BUT we are now trying for kids, so he gets to cum inside all time!
02/03/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I hate the pill, but when we did he finished inside.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Sexymami69 Sexymami69
My b/f cums inside of me, but if or when we have sex while I'm on my period we use a condom for extra protection.
02/04/2011
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I'm on the pill, but we also use condoms. You can never be too careful.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Before his vasectomy, I was on the pill for 3 years. He always, since the first time we were together, has come inside me. We never worried about getting pregnant once we were married. I got pregnant 2 years later, while I was on the pill. We just figured, "Oh well, we are married." When our son turned 2 years old, we agreed on something more permanent and reliable! Been wonderful since!
02/04/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I've been on the pill for years. My ex husband always came inside me and so does my current boyfriend now. I've never been pregnant and we're both STI free, so I'm fine with it and actually prefer it. I always feel more satisfied ... more
ive been on pill since october 2010 and we've never used condom - married, and he lways comes in me. ive got 2 toddlers n have yet to b preg on pill
02/05/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by moonch1ld
For those couples whose lady half is on the pill, do you cum inside of her or pull out for extra protection or some other method? Is this a joint decision or is one partner more worried?
my husband cums inside me. only protection we have/use is the birth control pill i take daily
03/14/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I am not on the pill anymore but when I was, he would pull out everytime except for the few days after I finished my period.
03/16/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
Other. He comes inside of me with a condom on.

Every one in a blue moon we'll have sex without a condom and he will cum on my body or in my mouth.
03/24/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
He comes inside of me...in a condom.
03/24/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
We use more condoms on toys.
03/25/2011
Contributor: Skitlz Skitlz
Quote:
Originally posted by moonch1ld
For those couples whose lady half is on the pill, do you cum inside of her or pull out for extra protection or some other method? Is this a joint decision or is one partner more worried?
Inside
03/25/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
My wife is on the pill and i cum in side her unless she is taking antibodics which can have an effect on how well the pill works. Also if we did get pregnet, it wouldnt be the end of the world.
03/25/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I might be more than a little ticked if he pulled out all of the time and I'm on the pill.
03/25/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
He always pulls out, even though I'm on the pill. I would love to have kids with him someday, but not at this point in our lives. We're still wary of the slight chance since we don't always use condoms, but with birth control and pulling out, we're usually satisfied. If I get pregnant, I would be okay with it, although its not preferred at the moment.
03/25/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
My SO is neutered.

I voted other because even though he does finish inside me, the fact that he's shooting blanks keeps me from being my overly paranoid self when it comes to pregnancy.

Other play partners, though, are the reason I'm on the pill.
I use condoms with them, both to prevent fertilization and to make sure I don't bring anything home to my fellow.
03/25/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Quote:
Originally posted by Collodion
My SO is neutered.

I voted other because even though he does finish inside me, the fact that he's shooting blanks keeps me from being my overly paranoid self when it comes to pregnancy.

Other play partners, though, are the reason ... more
Does you fellow know you have other play partners. Not that im against it, just wondering.
03/25/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
She's on the pill and I cum inside her. I want to get a vas but she keeps holding out hoping I will change my mind about having more kids. Other partners have jokingly told me that my cum must have some alternate properties because they are immediately exhausted after I finish inside them.
03/25/2011
Contributor: nicky51679 nicky51679
My hubby always stays in, he hates to pull out.
03/26/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
As long as we have a condom on it does not matter to us. Anally we do not use anything at all
03/26/2011
Contributor: Lily Night Lily Night
We cum inside, but still use condoms even though she's on the pill, its nice to have a little extra safety net just in case
03/26/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
While my wife was on the pill we always finished with me inside. Never had any problems with it.
03/28/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
I LOVE my partner cumming inside me and I am on the pill.
04/03/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
She's on the "pill" but we still use condoms too. We're serious but not married, not necessarily saving for that but we just want to on the safer side.
04/04/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
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Originally posted by Ansley
I might be more than a little ticked if he pulled out all of the time and I'm on the pill.
Yeah, I mean... sure safety and all..

But I am 99.9999% sure I will not get pregnant. Nuvaring and PCOS and all. I like the feeling, it is like that extra zeal toward the end = awesome.
04/05/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
My husband still cums inside
04/05/2011