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For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm? Private voting.

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Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
39  (95%)
No
2  (5%)
Total votes: 41
Poll is closed
10/23/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.

Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of the night trying to help me achieve one and I think most of the men here would do the same for their partners.
10/23/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Yes, it is VERY important to me. I am not in it just to please myself! The few times when she does not come first I feel terrible and do what ever it takes to make it right.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Jaxxie Lifeless Jaxxie Lifeless
super important. id feel like a failure if she didnt finish
10/23/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
My husband tries as hard as he can. Some days I have to tell him it isn't going to happen. It's important to him that I enjoy myself.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Yes, it is VERY important to me. I am not in it just to please myself! The few times when she does not come first I feel terrible and do what ever it takes to make it right.
This. She doesn't care so much, but I like to please her.
10/23/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My boyfriend cares quite a bit. Sometimes when it just won't happen, he's the first to grab a toy to make the job easier on us both.

I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm every time though. It's not the most important aspect of our sex life.
10/23/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
My BF Cares.
10/23/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.

Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
is it really 95/5? I feel like there's more guys here than that... or maybe I'm wrong!
10/23/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Yes, I like to please.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
He cares, but neither one of us know what to do in order to make it happen.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I think you've got a 95/5 ratio of females to males on the site, it's probably not a good idea to restrict your posts to just men.

Women can answer for their men, too. If I don't have an orgasm, my husband will spend the rest of ... more
Actually, they can't answer for their men. The point of my poll being anonymous was so that men can be honest. Only they know if they're truly interested in whether or not their lady orgasms. Women answering for their men defeats the purpose of the poll.
10/24/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My current partner tells me he aims to please
If I haven't had an orgasm he keeps at it til I get mine before he ever thinks of getting his. I like for us both to have orgasms and I have made that clear. One night he got me off several times and he hadn't got off yet but he needed to get to bed had to be up in 3 hours to unload his trailer for work. I told him NO he had to have an orgasm as well, he told me I was wet happy and shaking an that was all that mattered to him.
10/24/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I aim to please. I always try to make sure that my partner has an orgasm before I do.
I'd Telly love to learn to get her to squirt!!
10/24/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Cat E.
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
Mine cares a lot about that
10/27/2012
Contributor: Huff Huff
I'm shocked that someone voted "No"
10/27/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Absolutely - my partner's orgasm is my primary motivation - after she's had 2-4 orgasms, then it's my turn.
10/28/2012
Contributor: magicmaxx Mr.Mrs magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
yes I do care I make sure the wife has 2 to 3 orgasms then I have my orgasm
10/28/2012
Contributor: Hubby80 Hubby80
Yes
10/29/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
It really excites me to give my girlfriend orgasms. So yes, I care.
10/29/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
most nights I care more that she cums than I do
11/01/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
It makes me feel good when she does and I find it easier for me to knowing that she has
11/01/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Cat E.
For men only- do you care if your female partner has had an orgasm?
I always feel better when she does...and she feels better as well.
11/01/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
I care very much. It is part of what I enjoy about sex. I would feel terrible if I couldn't please her as much as she pleases me. Luckily this has never been an issue.
12/13/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife's pleasure is a high priority of mine and I'm always interested in her having an orgasm and fun.
12/13/2012
Contributor: lovelylolaa lovelylolaa
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
My husband tries as hard as he can. Some days I have to tell him it isn't going to happen. It's important to him that I enjoy myself.
Yea thats just like me and my bf
12/13/2012