I personally think it depends but more often then not it ends bad. What does everyone else think?
Fuck buddies more good or bad
02/28/2012
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It's hard to decide. I have had a few "fuck buddies" and for the most part half of them I still consider friends. It isn't a good idea if you have a prior friendship with that person because more often than not one of you will want something more and after that things just get awkward
02/28/2012
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I think they r bad simply because one always ends up wanting more then the other then it just goes weird or wrong and awkward
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
I personally think it depends but more often then not it ends bad. What does everyone else think?
02/28/2012
It depends on the situation. They can be good and bad at different times for different reasons.
02/28/2012
Bad
02/28/2012
You left out other choices, like depends, or other!
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for himself, and in those days I was ok with almost anything, except when someone wanted to tell me what to do, how to live life and see the world... The mentioned two were the most amazing lovers too though, at least among my buddies and friends, but all in all I think that as long as you keep it in mind that you just like each other, hang out and enjoy life as it comes, and don't go into serious stuff, deep emotions and drama then it is a lot of fun until you find a fitting precious mate...
(Of course after a while you may just grow tired of the whole thing and want a real mate for life, or something as close as possible, and not everybody understands when someone "has the heart of a slut", which isn't equal with being a free piece of pussy to take... So it can contain many unpleasant experiences too, it really depends on how much you see people, their intentions and personality, and if you choose good then you can handle things easier, because you hang out with the right kind of people... But yep, it isn't half as good as having a constant otherhalf, at least in my opinion... ^^)
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for himself, and in those days I was ok with almost anything, except when someone wanted to tell me what to do, how to live life and see the world... The mentioned two were the most amazing lovers too though, at least among my buddies and friends, but all in all I think that as long as you keep it in mind that you just like each other, hang out and enjoy life as it comes, and don't go into serious stuff, deep emotions and drama then it is a lot of fun until you find a fitting precious mate...
(Of course after a while you may just grow tired of the whole thing and want a real mate for life, or something as close as possible, and not everybody understands when someone "has the heart of a slut", which isn't equal with being a free piece of pussy to take... So it can contain many unpleasant experiences too, it really depends on how much you see people, their intentions and personality, and if you choose good then you can handle things easier, because you hang out with the right kind of people... But yep, it isn't half as good as having a constant otherhalf, at least in my opinion... ^^)
02/28/2012
I prefer a friend with benefits. Without an emotional connection, sex isn't any fun.
02/28/2012
I voted "bad" because that seems to be the case with the average person.
I don't think it must necessarily be so, but expectations need to be clear and there needs to be honest communication in the event someone starts feeling they want "more" or whatnot.
I don't think it must necessarily be so, but expectations need to be clear and there needs to be honest communication in the event someone starts feeling they want "more" or whatnot.
02/28/2012
It would depend on the particular relationship and situation.
02/28/2012
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I left out the other choices on purpose am just trying to see if people think its more good or bad regaurless of in between circumstances.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
You left out other choices, like depends, or other!
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for ... more
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for ... more
You left out other choices, like depends, or other!
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for himself, and in those days I was ok with almost anything, except when someone wanted to tell me what to do, how to live life and see the world... The mentioned two were the most amazing lovers too though, at least among my buddies and friends, but all in all I think that as long as you keep it in mind that you just like each other, hang out and enjoy life as it comes, and don't go into serious stuff, deep emotions and drama then it is a lot of fun until you find a fitting precious mate...
(Of course after a while you may just grow tired of the whole thing and want a real mate for life, or something as close as possible, and not everybody understands when someone "has the heart of a slut", which isn't equal with being a free piece of pussy to take... So it can contain many unpleasant experiences too, it really depends on how much you see people, their intentions and personality, and if you choose good then you can handle things easier, because you hang out with the right kind of people... But yep, it isn't half as good as having a constant otherhalf, at least in my opinion... ^^) less
So I chose good, because in my experiences all the (quite many) "best fuck friend" BFFs were ok, though two were in love with me very much, a third one wanted to keep me for himself, and in those days I was ok with almost anything, except when someone wanted to tell me what to do, how to live life and see the world... The mentioned two were the most amazing lovers too though, at least among my buddies and friends, but all in all I think that as long as you keep it in mind that you just like each other, hang out and enjoy life as it comes, and don't go into serious stuff, deep emotions and drama then it is a lot of fun until you find a fitting precious mate...
(Of course after a while you may just grow tired of the whole thing and want a real mate for life, or something as close as possible, and not everybody understands when someone "has the heart of a slut", which isn't equal with being a free piece of pussy to take... So it can contain many unpleasant experiences too, it really depends on how much you see people, their intentions and personality, and if you choose good then you can handle things easier, because you hang out with the right kind of people... But yep, it isn't half as good as having a constant otherhalf, at least in my opinion... ^^) less
03/01/2012
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bad
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
I personally think it depends but more often then not it ends bad. What does everyone else think?
03/12/2012
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I don't think it's good or bad, I think it is completely situational. Sometimes friends with benefits works, sometimes it hurts.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
I personally think it depends but more often then not it ends bad. What does everyone else think?
03/12/2012
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I agree with this.
Originally posted by
NarcissisticLust
I don't think it's good or bad, I think it is completely situational. Sometimes friends with benefits works, sometimes it hurts.
06/26/2012
Some people can make it work.
06/26/2012
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