Have you ever broken up with someone and they then request to fuck like strangers? If so did you do their request?
Fucking an ex?
04/17/2013
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I have but don't advise it. Makes for drama and complications I can live without.
Originally posted by
melliegirl
Have you ever broken up with someone and they then request to fuck like strangers? If so did you do their request?
04/18/2013
I have never. I don't think I could handle that emotionally.
04/18/2013
At the end of the time with my ex, I did not want to have sex with him. So I would never have sex with him after we broke up. When I am done, I am done.
04/18/2013
I did a couple of times, before I met my husband. I think everyone back tracks with an ex, at some point. It's always messy, or you feel rotten afterwards. Either way, I think it's a learning experience, that a lot of people go through.
04/18/2013
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Well, it's something I think is a horrible idea, but I can't say I've never done it. It was a horrible idea. LOL. I did it twice & it just made things worse. No, it was nothing about fucking like strangers. Just f'ing as non-boyfriend/girlfrie nd. Lol.
Originally posted by
melliegirl
Have you ever broken up with someone and they then request to fuck like strangers? If so did you do their request?
Something I definitely would never do again. But then again, I don't plan to ever be single again, but if my partner and I did, oh what the hell, of course I would. LOL Haha. That's cause I looooove him though. Lol. But definitely don't plan on us splitting apar.
04/18/2013
I've done it twice and it was mixed.
The first time, she wanted to get back together but I didn't. I was just in it for the "free sex" and she ended up pretty heartbroken about it.
The second time was kind of the opposite. When she broke it off, I was very sad — but I didn't regret our friends-with-benefits experience, even then.
The first time, she wanted to get back together but I didn't. I was just in it for the "free sex" and she ended up pretty heartbroken about it.
The second time was kind of the opposite. When she broke it off, I was very sad — but I didn't regret our friends-with-benefits experience, even then.
04/18/2013
if I break up with someone, there's usually a reason. And if the reason was good enough to part us, it's good enough to keep us apart.
04/18/2013
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
Noelle
I have but don't advise it. Makes for drama and complications I can live without.
04/18/2013
Did that before, definitely don't recommend it. It gets way too odd emotionally
04/19/2013
I have but it always causes problems
04/19/2013
I have not as a general rule. Breaking up is final for a reason!
04/20/2013
I did it with my first serious girlfriend after we broke up. The sex led to the continuation of the relationship which fell apart a few months later even nastier than the first. I learned my lesson and refused future invites for sex from exes.
04/22/2013
I tried it once. It seemed like a good idea but once things started rolling I got really emotional and had to stop because it was too much. It didn't help that it wasn't just an ex-it was THE ex-the ex first love. What a mess. Not recommended.
04/26/2013
I didn't "fuck like strangers," but I have done the sex with the ex thing. It was fine for me, and less attached, but he ended up not being fine with it and wanting to return to being in a relationship.
If the breakup was good and there weren't serious communication issues in the relationship, I think sex with the ex is fine. I ran into problems because our poor communication as partners spilled over into poor communication as f buddies. You still have to be able to talk things out effectively and express feelings.
If the breakup was good and there weren't serious communication issues in the relationship, I think sex with the ex is fine. I ran into problems because our poor communication as partners spilled over into poor communication as f buddies. You still have to be able to talk things out effectively and express feelings.
05/11/2013
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