Do You Prefer It Fun or Serious?

Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
When it comes to regular sex, do you prefer fun and playful, or serious and passionate? What kinds of things reflect your preference?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm female and...
28
I'm male and...
10
I'm another gender and...
3
I prefer fun and playful
8
I prefer serious and passionate
8
Both are great/no preference
33
Other
Total votes: 90 (44 voters)
Poll is closed
03/19/2013
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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
It really depends on my mood. A lot of the time, the mood is killed if it's too playful with my girlfriend, but we don't have serious and passionate sex very often. When we do it is very serious and very passionate.

But it's not very... playful either. I mean... its fun, but I dunno. It's hard to describe, really.
03/19/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I love it both ways! I have to say it isn't super "serious" and passionate very often but I don't consider that a bad thing. It's passionate in our own way but not the cheesy romance movie kind of way.
03/19/2013
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Depends on the mood, but both are great!
03/19/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I would say that it's both fun and passionate with my current man. Like sometimes we will act totally silly one moment and then it will go to super hot the next.
03/20/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
i honestly would qualify my partners and i sex life as "fun and playful," since i usually get the giggles. I dont really have a preference, as we tend to find a kind of crossover of the two.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
We always have fun and keep things playful. We'll have a few minutes of seriousness and passion but mostly its all fun and games.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We've been at this too long for it to be serious and passionate. It's all fun and recreation for us.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Variety is the spice of life...I'll take a mix of both.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
Both, it depends on my mood of the moment.
03/20/2013
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
I like both. But it really depends on how I am feeling.
03/20/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
When it comes to regular sex, do you prefer fun and playful, or serious and passionate? What kinds of things reflect your preference?
FUN. Always. I always say that having fun is the most important thing in life, and I really do believe that. I'm a pretty fun and playful person and t makes life so much nicer, in my opinion.
03/20/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Both are great!
03/20/2013
Contributor: JodiPrince JodiPrince
you cant be serious all the time sometimes the best times come when you playing
03/20/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
For me, I prefer serious and passionate. There are lots of other ways in life we can have 'fun'.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Depends on the mood, more passionate but have to have room for fun too.
03/20/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
The "fun" comes in with foreplay and toys other then that we are serious and passionate He prefers to make love not fuck which I love as well
03/20/2013
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
Both are great, but are mood dependent for me.
03/20/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I say that both have their strong points, to me it really depends on who I'm with, some are more just good to have a playful time and some I really enjoy getting serious with.
03/20/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
We switch up between the two.
03/20/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm more into fun and playful.
03/21/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
I like both but fun and playful is definitely the more frequent one. It's hard to be serious all the time you know
03/22/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
When it comes to regular sex, do you prefer fun and playful, or serious and passionate? What kinds of things reflect your preference?
I prefer serious and passionate
03/22/2013
Contributor: musicownsmysoul musicownsmysoul
It all depends on what I'm in the mood for really
03/23/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
When it comes to regular sex, do you prefer fun and playful, or serious and passionate? What kinds of things reflect your preference?
Fun!! I like laughing. Serious is good sometimes, too.
03/23/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
A lot of times, we have both in the same session. Sometimes we start playfully and end up getting passionate; other times, we'll start out hot and heavy only to have something make us laugh and get playful. They're both wonderful.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Both playful and serious are good...but if I had to choose, I would prefer playful.
03/23/2013