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Guy: How long does it take to get hard?

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Contributor: eri86 eri86
Once something triggers your arousal, how soon are you ready to go for penetrative sex? Even if you still then wait to have penetrative sex.
05/22/2013
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Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I can be hard in seconds to a few minutes and be ready...but I enjoy lots of foreplay too.
05/22/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
For my husband, two minutes or less. It's not often at all we go at it that quickly though, we enjoy foreplay beforehand.
05/22/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
30 seconds maybe. but we toss in foreplay and what not. SO it could be a hour or so before we have sex.
05/22/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
Once something triggers your arousal, how soon are you ready to go for penetrative sex? Even if you still then wait to have penetrative sex.
For my partner? Instantly. Lol. But he still waits it out for the foreplay.


For me, I need to have quite some foreplay first. A lot. I have been able to go straight into sex & have fun, but my orgasms are seriously limited that way. Usually there's other foreplay and oral before sex & I always O from that, unless something is very wrong such as pain.

Usually immediately after o'ing from oral, I'm 100% definitely ready.
05/23/2013