I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever faked enjoying sex?
05/31/2011
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I faked it before, with my first guy. It was oral. I regret it ¬_¬
05/31/2011
I've faked it!! Stayin' real. *giggle*
05/31/2011
yep, guilty
05/31/2011
Yes
05/31/2011
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Yes. I had to fake it a lot with my first husband. I didn't enjoy sex at all for many months before we stopped sleeping together and eventually found other people. I don't think it was satisfying for him either.
Originally posted by
Gigi128
I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
05/31/2011
Honestly, it never occurred to me to fake it. I'd always be honest about whether or not I finished, but it seemed to me like I'd be biting myself in the ass if I pretended to like it in the beginning and we were together for a long time and nothing changed because I pretended to like crappy sex, lol.
05/31/2011
Honestly, no. IN the moment, I'm pretty much always enjoying it. I'm one of the lucky girls who can orgasm any time the wind picks up, though.
A few months after a relationship, though, once the haze has cleared, it's not unheard of for me to say, "you know? He wasn't objectively that great." That usually comes more if communication wasn't very strong.
But heat of the moment, no, I'm usually enjoying myself, and I'll say so. And if I'm not, I'll also say so.
Some guys have actually told me they wished I was less easy-to-please, because given how well I can communicate what they want, if I was pickier, I'd be a great technique teacher. Oh well, I'll take what I've got and be glad.
A few months after a relationship, though, once the haze has cleared, it's not unheard of for me to say, "you know? He wasn't objectively that great." That usually comes more if communication wasn't very strong.
But heat of the moment, no, I'm usually enjoying myself, and I'll say so. And if I'm not, I'll also say so.
Some guys have actually told me they wished I was less easy-to-please, because given how well I can communicate what they want, if I was pickier, I'd be a great technique teacher. Oh well, I'll take what I've got and be glad.
05/31/2011
Both guilty.
05/31/2011
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I never have even though at times it gets a bit hard with an impatient partner to say "This isn't doing anything for me." As long as I make sure he understands that I'm not critiquing HIM it's usually well received and we go on to have an amazing time.
Originally posted by
Gigi128
I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
05/31/2011
Yea in the early days I did. Before I figured out what felt good to me, I would just go along with whatever my partner was doing.
Thank god for communication and experimentation!
Thank god for communication and experimentation!
05/31/2011
Unfortunately I've had to fake it. Just to get it over with mostly. I shoulda won an Oscar! Of course I did not stay with those I've faked with.
05/31/2011
only a couple times. once during a fling. and once to get my guy hard. He becomes more arouse when I come, but I'm usually sensitive after I orgasm. So a bit of trickery is occasionally needed.
05/31/2011
When i was younger but not anymore..does that make me a bad person?
05/31/2011
Hmm... Well, thats interesting.
I don't mind sounding more into it than I may be in any given moment because 1) it motivates me to get back into the right headspace and 2) it encourages my partner to continue. Once I stop, it becomes obvious that I'm not present and the brakes come on, full stop. I suppose that can be called 'faking' it, but if I wanted to stop, were truly not enjoying myself or in pain, I know that I could say so and my partner would respect that.
I don't mind sounding more into it than I may be in any given moment because 1) it motivates me to get back into the right headspace and 2) it encourages my partner to continue. Once I stop, it becomes obvious that I'm not present and the brakes come on, full stop. I suppose that can be called 'faking' it, but if I wanted to stop, were truly not enjoying myself or in pain, I know that I could say so and my partner would respect that.
05/31/2011
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I have faked a few times. It's not because the sex is necessarily bad, but usually it's those nights when I know there is no way on God's green Earth that I'm going to climax.
Originally posted by
Gigi128
I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
05/31/2011
Yep a few times, we've known each other 20 years so sometimes I just want him to hurry so I can go to sleep lolol!
05/31/2011
Nope. Seems pointless to me. How will they ever learn if you aren't honest?
06/01/2011
I only did it once, cause he just wasn't doing a good job & he had the small dick I have ever seen. -_-
06/01/2011
Yes, guilty. But I'm one of those people who has a hard time focusing on me and what I want, it's always about taking care of others which can make sex difficult because a person has to be a little selfish to get off! It's a good exercise for me I suppose. But I don't want my husband to feel bad because it's usually not that he's doing anything wrong, it's that my brain is in the completely wrong place at the time (tired, preoccupied, etc). Now that I think about it though, not so much since having a baby, because I enjoy the rareness of the opportunity!
06/01/2011
I don't fake, I like being honest. But I exaggerate my OK-ness just a little on the rare occasion when suddenly I'm not getting into things as much? I hate ending things when my partner is happy, he'd probably do the same for me.
06/01/2011
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yes ihave a couple oftimes then gotbored and asked if they were done yet one jackass was so in to it he didnt notice i was reading a book is how boring it was
Originally posted by
Gigi128
I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
06/20/2011
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No if it's not good why feed his ego.I have been with mine going on year 7 now.
Originally posted by
Gigi128
I heard that some people pretend that the sex is great when it really wasn't.
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
Have you ever fakes before?
Haha
06/20/2011
Yes I have. I was with this guy once who was to afraid to come during PIV, and managed to stay hard for a long long time so I faked an orgasm just to get it to end.
06/22/2011
Never needed to. Guess I'm lucky
11/29/2011
yaaaa
11/29/2011
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