I guess this would mostly apply to guys seeing into woman, since it would be far harder to "look" into a guy, but have you ever tried to really see inside your lovers girlie parts and watched her cervix contract during orgasm or seen her vaginal walls pulsate with pleasure spasms?

Years ago, I had a lover (I was still young and in college), who asked if he could really watch as I came. I was very shy about it, but laid there and let him position a desk lamp to illuminate inside me as he had me spread my own lips open and he digitally brought me to orgasm. It was hard to relax, but afterwords, I realized guys are so visual, and if it gave him pleasure, why not? That cured any shyness I ever had about my body, and now I enjoy putting on shows for my hubby. However, I wonder how common this is?

I know couples, married for years and year, who have never taken a moment to really look at their partners genitals or consider "opening them up" to look inside. I know my hubby loves to see the pinkest pink of my vaginal vault and after anal sex, he is sometimes thrilled to just watch my pulsating little anal sphincter, so I just relax, and let him enjoy the view.

Anyone else taken the time to enjoy the inside view of their lovers, not just the outside? less

My husband and I are both quite visual but this isn't something that interests either of us. We like having the lights on so we see each other during play but while we find what you're describing of clinical interest, it's not something we'd pursue after sex. less