Have you participated in a three way?

Yes

And a few 4+.

It was a fantasy of mine for many years, but once my husband and I got serious I threw it out. As we have discussed, we are way too possessive of each other to do it now.

I had a sort of threeway, but I don't count it because one of the guys wasn't supposed to be involved. It's complicated... haha.

I've had tons of MMF threesomes and have attempted 2 MFF threesomes. With me, a girl and another guy, I tend to get way to jealous and insecure, so though it is a massive fantasy of mine, I have decided to just leave that one lie.

The MMF threesomes were all fun. The only time I ever didn't have fun was when the other guy, who wasn't my boyfriend, thought that that one time now meant that I always wanted to hook up with him, which I definitely didn't.

Really, I could go on and on with advice but the only advice that matters is that all parties involved are completely comfortable with it. Back in those days, we had a rule that only boyfriend could penetrate vaginally, though that rule changed over the years. Be sure to set clear and defined boundaries before going into it.

If you don't want your guy eating someone else out, or something about it doesn't make you comfortable, absolutely open your mouth about it. You're already taking a wonderful step in considering the threesome prior to jumping right into it. Get your mind-juices flowing about the threesome so that you can be prepared when you're in it to deal with any situations that may arise.

Absolutely communicate to the best of your ability, if not better. Threesomes have been known to ruin seemingly great relationships. If you're unsure, insecure, jealous or any other negative emotion, speak up about it. Let your partner know that the size of her boobs makes you insecure or the size of his cock scares you. Don't ever stop communicating, especially during the threesome. Practice visual and body cues so that you don't have to use your words. And beat your partner up if they don't communicate with you back. It's absolutely imperative!

In summary, the two main things you should take from this is that a threesome needs to have CONSENT and COMMUNICATION to be anything that anyone is going to enjoy. After that, things just tend to fall into place.

I haven't, but I would with the right people.

I have not but I am picky when it comes to this stuff. I have thought about it but it will take a long time before I do it.

It's always been a fantasy of mine. I'd have to do it with the right people though.

Other -- Yes, a few, but certainly not often, and not for a long time now.

I never have and I don't think I truely want to either.

I have not but would like to someday.

I have with me and 2 males.

Not often, but more than once. I don't make a habit of it but it has happened.

Haven't, and my guy is too self-conscious to truly want to.

Never and NEVER will I don't like sharing my partner and I don't like being shared.

Happily married - no need for complications.

I haven't but I may like to some day. Currently, I have too many insecurities and I feel I'd get too jealous and upset so I don't bring it up with my partner.

yes. another girl and a man plus myself. the girl and I didn't do much together though cause I think she was shy and didn't know much about pleasing a woman. so he just took turns fucking us.

I did this when I was single though. I would personally never recommend a three + some from someone in a relationship. it seems like it has the potential to cause a lot of problems or hurt feelings even if neither person thinks it will.

Never would. I'm married to the only person I want to be with in that sense, so I'm all set.

Of course and several of them, they were all his desires. So who am I to argue?

no, i do NOT share lol (does not play well with others) and lucky for me my Mister is the same, he has no desires to share me either so its not an issue

I was so close to having a few of them, but I didn't. I felt childish and silly at those moments. I hope to have one soon with the right person.

Could be fun. But I dont think I would know that I have found such a great partner

Nope

never but i want to. not with my SO though. she's all mine lol

NO WAY!! i have never and will never it complicates things and ruins relationships because someone gets to involved or someone develops feelings for someone other than their SO or someone out of the 3 way ends up sneaking off to hook up together.....Things get all F'ed up and people get hurt. To each his/her own if you do that an things don't get turned around for you more power to you but in the end someone always gets hurt.

never and dont think i would

I have.. on a few occasions, yes.

BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually help our relationship. We separated for reasons completely unrelated to the threeway, a year or so after the threeway happened.