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LadyLegs
I've been seeing this guy for a while and we started having sex about 2 months ago. It feels like he takes too long to come. Sometimes he doesn't come at all and the times he has for the most part it was from jacking off-(either with oral
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I've been seeing this guy for a while and we started having sex about 2 months ago. It feels like he takes too long to come. Sometimes he doesn't come at all and the times he has for the most part it was from jacking off-(either with oral but mostly without). I have tried a lot of different postions, given head for eternity, etc. Not sure what I'm doing wrong. Is it possible he masturbates too much? He says he enjoys the sex we have but his lack of climax makes me think otherwise. I've NEVER had a problem like this before and I've had enough partners to know what I'm doing (no judgement).
What do you think? Any pointers?
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Since you just started, he might be trying to last longer?
Have you asked him if he pregame (masturbates before hand) that will definitely prolong the session?
Have you tried the fire/ice type lubes, they might help him get more sensitive?
You can try talking dirty, stimulating him (nipple play, necking, etc.) during sex to push him over the edge, it works for my girls when they just want a quickie.
For myself I know a few things that speeds things up, tightening my leg muscles/ holding my breath.
If you watch porn before hand it should also get him close to coming before you even start.