Help me understand my wife

Contributor: trios trios
My wife knows what turns me on.

I am still getting to know her. So far here are some things:

1. she hates talking- erotic or not.
2. she likes the thought of spanking.
3. during lovemaking she imagines a girl being spanked and getting it from behind.

My problems:

1. I absolutely LOVE dirty talk- it gets me going. Before, during, after.
2. She says I am not intimidating enough to spank her or dominate her in bed. I am slightly taller than she and have a small build.
3. In her mind, getting it from behind, I guess, is a submissive act. My thing is too short to really get her from behind good enough. She doesn't like dildos enough for me to get a harness and use that behind her (yet)

So folks out there- any thoughts? Can we get on the same page? Our sex life is good, getting better little by little with LOTs of work from me...

Any suggestions would be appreciated!
11/27/2010
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