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Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Looking at other posts, we know some of us look at porn.

I was wondering......What do you think about home movies.

I personally have probably 15+ hours on a few memory cards from our digital camra of me my husband and some have it with my friend(good threesomes). They stay between me my husband and my friend. So what do you think about that.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Your sick for recording yourself have sex with your husband/friend
1
I think its cool you have recordered youselft having intercourse and watch it to get off when your alone
57
Ime not sure what to think about you having filmed your sex life
3
I would do if for my husband/boyfriend
23
No way I wouldnt do it for my husband or boyfriend
11
I might do it one day ime not sure
14
Total votes: 109 (78 voters)
Poll is closed
07/18/2010
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Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I have been recorded and will never do it again, especially if my face is visible.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I don't know. I'm open to the idea, but only with someone that I would really really trust to not make the tape public. But then, I'm pretty sure that the idea of recording a sexual intercourse is better in my mind than what it would be in person. I'm not a porn star, and I'm sure there is quite a lot of acting that we don't always think about. So yeah, maybe, but I'm sure I would not be happy with the results.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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I spend lots of time separated from one or the other of my partners so we have lots of movies that the other partner can watch when they are feeling alone or just plain horny. I don't watch the videos myself because it makes me feel uncomfortable seeing myself but the guys love it.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I have and woulkd again....but I prefer taking photos.
07/18/2010
Contributor: fatesrelease fatesrelease
I know my boyfriend would never use it against me but I don't really feel comfortable having pictures/video of myself because I wouldn't want them to get into the wrong hands.
07/18/2010
Contributor: happeegrl03 happeegrl03
i have no problem with it, however, i have to be in a positively trusting and long term relationship
07/18/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
We have pix and maybe a movie or two. The secret is that both people have the pix and respect for each other that they'll be deleted at the request of the other person (or at least edited).
07/18/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
My hubby's only request was that it didn't get leaked onto the internet!
07/18/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I've only done it with one partner, my current partner. The only reason I feel absolutely 100% secure in being filmed with him is because in these films we are both doing things we'd rather not have leaked to other parties. In order for him to, say, show our mutual friends that I don a strap-on, he'd have to also show them how he enjoys being on the receiving end of it. It's mutual blackmail, I guess? It leaves us both gridlocked and unable to ever use it should we ever break up in a terrible and messy way.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I've only done it with one partner, my current partner. The only reason I feel absolutely 100% secure in being filmed with him is because in these films we are both doing things we'd rather not have leaked to other parties. In order for him ... more
Hahaha, perfect deal!
07/18/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I did it with one past boyfriend once or twice and have done it with my current once or twice. Pictures are more plentiful.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
The wording on the first selection cracked me up, I wanted to chose that just as a joke... but instead I picked the second one.
07/19/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I prefer pictures. We're never really away from each other though, when we were once for two weeks we just used webcams and had phone/webcam sex.
07/19/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Too much of a risk of an "accident", especially in this age of digital stuff.
07/19/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
My 8th Grade English teacher said "Never write down anything you don't want EVERYONE to read," and I find that this has, in my life time, been some of the most sage advice I've ever received. I have not always followed it, however I do apply the same principle to photos and video - because life is just too unpredictable and some things are not worth the risk of EVERYONE seeing them.
07/19/2010
Contributor: ToyingCouple ToyingCouple
Very wise words Laurel, we definitely agree with your very bright teacher!
07/19/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I've only done it with one partner, my current partner. The only reason I feel absolutely 100% secure in being filmed with him is because in these films we are both doing things we'd rather not have leaked to other parties. In order for him ... more
Good deal!

I think I would act differently and be more inhibited if there were a camera on during sex. I dunno. Not knocking it though.
07/19/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
My 8th Grade English teacher said "Never write down anything you don't want EVERYONE to read," and I find that this has, in my life time, been some of the most sage advice I've ever received. I have not always followed it, however I ... more
I should also say that while this is my personal philosophy, I have no problem at all with anybody else doing it.
07/19/2010
Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
I don't know I guess I've always know I was taking a risk making pornos of myself, but I guess it really wouldn't be that bad if something got leaked. It would make me feel bad if someone I knew actually watched the video (Like someone I didn't like that would be kinda weird. But then again if they ever said anything about it I would know they watched porn and could call them out on that (Which is on the same level of making a porno in my opinion). So I guess I am willing to take the risk of making my own pornos. ^_^
07/19/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
We made a porno then broke the damn camera. I kicked over the tripod. Heh.
07/19/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
We made a porno then broke the damn camera. I kicked over the tripod. Heh.
Classy
07/20/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I honestly cannot respond because the poll is a little noninclusive and does not make sense to me.

My answer, however, is that you can do whatever you would like in the comfort of your own home. You enjoy making your own home videos, then go for it. Not my business. I do not think that it's "cool" though, either. I am indifferent to the what you've done.

For me, I personally do enjoy to make my own videos, actually, it's very exciting. I especially like to watch them afterward, like you do.
07/20/2010
Contributor: Cats Meow Cats Meow
I have once and totally enjoyed it. I loved watching his face as he watched us through the camera and watching it afterwards together brought round two! haha we deleted it right after cus we were both a lil paranoid but it was alot of fun!
07/20/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
I am going out on a limb here, but I think the risk factor adds to the appeal.
07/21/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Gary
I am going out on a limb here, but I think the risk factor adds to the appeal.
Isn't there a review that had some candid pictures?
07/21/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I did it with one past boyfriend once or twice and have done it with my current once or twice. Pictures are more plentiful.
Yeh, I prefer pictures on my cell phone. I say that only cause If I can I prefer video on the computer. Sometimes someone else is using my laptop so I just use pics from my phone. Video on the phone doesnt turn out well.
07/25/2010
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
home movies are between me and him only.
02/09/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We have literally thousands of pictures. We bust out the camera pretty much every other session or so. Only have a few movies, though. We post some of them online on various sites and forums. It's actually quite flattering to know that other people are enjoying your pictures.
02/09/2011
Contributor: AU AU
I don't have a problem with anyone else doing this. Just be wise about who you do it with?

We have done some recording years ago, and I don't think we'll do it again. I think we watched the video once. It wasn't really our thing. We don't like watching home videos of any kind very much in general.

I would like to photograph my partner more for my own pleasure. But it wouldn't exactly be pornographic, but sensual and I would avoid genitalia. That way, if found later, I would be more OK with the discovery.
02/09/2011